last weekend during my time with the kids. S10 was feverish, WW called to checkup on him. said I should bring him to the hospital.
WW came over to drop off his insurance card. I asked WW to double check if he should go. WW said yes take him. S10 started crying and asked WW to take him. I fully knew WW and OM were spending "Quality time" together, and this interupted their time. WW then says " maybe just some medicine will help, he doesnt have to go" I was so enraged WW would choose OM vs S10. I texted later telling her i was PO'd of what she did.
Now WW asked anytime the kids are sick , we keep each other updated on their condition. I know the guilt she is feeling now. she initiates texts, their condition everyday. I always reply "thanks" "i appreciate it".
Should i even reply? how do i deal with this according to Sandi's rules of NC with kids involved. Is she compensating for all WW's guilt?
Me 41 W 38 S5 S11 S13 M10 T16 03/06 B drop 1, OM found 1 mth in 03/06 Physical Seperation
* here is the kicker, WW thought i was G@y, i told her my therapist said i was not and i am going to a sexu@l therapist in 1 day to "make sure", when i dropped that she broke down, most likely in guilt of what she has done.
I am in no sense of speaking judging you when I ask this question, or trying to get too personal. Were you going to a sex therapist b/c of her? Was it to give her some answers, or yourself? I realize she has bullied you for a long time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Question: is WW temp checking me through the kids?
Originally Posted By: kirklan
second update.
last weekend during my time with the kids. S10 was feverish, WW called to checkup on him. said I should bring him to the hospital.
WW came over to drop off his insurance card. I asked WW to double check if he should go. WW said yes take him. S10 started crying and asked WW to take him. I fully knew WW and OM were spending "Quality time" together, and this interupted their time. WW then says " maybe just some medicine will help, he doesnt have to go" I was so enraged WW would choose OM vs S10. I texted later telling her i was PO'd of what she did.
Now WW asked anytime the kids are sick , we keep each other updated on their condition. I know the guilt she is feeling now. she initiates texts, their condition everyday. I always reply "thanks" "i appreciate it".
Should i even reply? how do i deal with this according to Sandi's rules of NC with kids involved. Is she compensating for all WW's guilt?
Should i even reply? how do i deal with this according to Sandi's rules of NC with kids involved.
this question is hanging over my head! catch 22 you know what i mean?
Me 41 W 38 S5 S11 S13 M10 T16 03/06 B drop 1, OM found 1 mth in 03/06 Physical Seperation
