Hey V, hope you can work out the things that are giving you problems soon. Hopefully XH will be out of your life in the near future and one less thing you need to worry about. Sending some of those rainbows your way also.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
V - I am so sorry you are dealing with so much right now. I wish there was something I could do to help, especially because you have already done so much to help me and so many others. Please know that I am thinking of you and wish I could give you more than just hugs across the internet. Hopefully, you are having a better time today. xoxo ((hugs))
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
Your husbamds antics are a bit perplexing, he has no real clue what to do right now...he has lost all of his control over you and he is not aure what to think or do about that.
I am so glad you can see all of it for what it is and not for some symbol or eeffort on his part to try to get you back or whatever. You know it is all about control and you have stepped out of his grasp.
You are heroic in my mind, i have seen first hand husband and wives who were so vwry qbusivw to thier spouse and they continue on in thier marriages today....they lack the knowledge, strength and courage to walk away as you have.
I know this has left scars, but i am teading every day the legacy of those acars...where you have chosen to overcome them and turn thst pain into something positive and help these we folks out with what you have learned and continue to learn. You help give us strength when we have not enough on pur own. You give us wisdom where we lack, you give us guidwmce when weve lost our way and sometime you give us a stern skap on the @$$ to get moving in the right direction
