Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place
struggling today. WXW is here packing up her stuff. We aren't talking. Last night she sent me text msg's asking if were going to be home bc she says she no longer feels comfortable sleeping in the same house......more odd behavior. I didnt answer but she and D4 slept at her 1st XH house.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place
ugh!!! Having a hard day. Just need to vent a bit.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place
Hi NYGal I spent most of the day installing a new bathroom vanity. Then snuggled D4 on the couch for a bit. WXW was here all day packing her stuff. This is her weekend to have D4 so they just left to spend the night at her 1st XH house with the boys. D4 wanted to stay with me. I have to find something to do. Sure is weird being here at my house all alone.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place
I had to move out of my house and last night was the first night I had to think about OW being in my bed. It tore me up. This is the worst.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
G The packing was the worst. I have to tell you to prepare you though the last time she walks out the door ripped what of my heart was left out of my body.
Please try not to be around while she is packing. Get out anywhere.
As for the last time she leaves. It will be hard but I don't know if you want to be there or not. I wish I would have probably not been there.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
Hi Rain, I only reached out to one buddy. He was out on a date. I fell asleep on the couch watching football. Then went to bed at 830 and fell asleep watching football again.
I was trying to be careful with what I did last night. In the past I've had a tendency to over drink to cope and wanted to be sure I didn't end up at the bar.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place
NYGal, WXW has definitely not been going out as much as she was when we were still M which is weird. I think she may be actually spending some time alone to work on herself. Since our D on 2 different occassions she has told me she loves me, she wants to start couples counseling, she wants to date and remarry. I'm not sure how I feel about this. I definitely want my family back but I don't know that she has hit rock bottom enough to make the changes that would give us a healthy M.
As far as the house. I'm keeping the house. I feel like I want to be very careful about dating and having anyone stay the night bc we could be back together and don't want any additional stumbling blocks. This home could someday be our marital home and again and i don't want to create any problems.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place
