Wife sent an email Monday saying she'd already met with an attorney and paid fees to start process. On the surface, she wants me to walk away with essentially 75% of everything. Wow. I'm stalling, and told her I was speaking to an attorney and still looking at apartments so I could make my mind up about the house. She is hell bent on making this happen.
I guess I will not try to slow the process down any longer, and give her what she wants. That way she can get the EA/OM out in the open.
Me - Mid 40's W - Mid 40's Married 20 No kids BD - 7/2015 ILYB... Moved out 2 days later Suspect EA
I understand, J. I'm at the same point. We're attempting to come up with a settlement now.
In my case, I had to let him go. Trying to help him was making the problem worse. I hate it, I really hate it - but I have no desire to continue being the "problem" in his life he can't wait to get rid of.
The sooner I'm out of the way, the sooner he can realize it was never me making him so unhappy. Or, maybe I was. Who knows? I can't control one single thing except how I'm choosing to react. Some days are better than others. LOL
