Wrigley, just catching up on your thread now. Sounds like you handled today well, with kids you are going to have to interact with her sometimes and you kept it "light" and pleasant. If you keep the conversation limited to the kids and logistics that is the best you can do. I wouldn't bring up memories, waywards have a way of distorting those and then suddenly your most treasured memories are now something completely twisted.
What are you doing for yourself today? Keep posting, keep sharing as much as you can, you will get some great support here.
I hear you there Wrigley. Just because the A is over doesn't mean that they want to come back to you. Just have to keep plugging aw6. Hope things work out for the best for you.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016
Thank you. She has a lot of pent up issues with our marriage but it's really all stuff she sees that has changed. She felt I never loved her and didn't spend time with the young boys enough.
Well those boys are now really close to me and she knows I love her. Who else would be will I get to fight for our marriage through all of this. I will give her some space and in the meantime I will live my life. Either she comes around or I meet someone else.
We talked for two hours the other night. We are both on the same page with what was happening to us and realize we should have stopped it. The lack of real communication and listening to what our partner needed. At least I realize it. She may still be at the blame stage and not yet fully accepting her role
