Just wanting advice on how to stay detached. We've been separated 2 months and he gives me mixed messages but now he's not texting at all and introduced the ow to my son without consulting me.
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
Tamjakr, this is your son, not his, correct? This is something you may want to set a boundary around. Something like; hey H it's not appropriate for you to involve my son in your relationship with OW, especially without my knowledge beforehand.
I guess I am confused about your situation. Is your son living with you? And this is your son, not H's? And you are living at a different location from H?
So why is your son seeing H at all?
Me:49 W:45 M:19 T:22 EA confirmed and ended 8/2014 S:19,17 D:9,5
He is both of our son , he lives with me and goes to his dad's twice or once a week. I would like to say that to him but I don't want to call or text, no pursuit
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
I moved out 2 months ago because he cheated. Even though we were divorced in 08 we've been back together since 09 I consider that cheating.
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
