determined to overcome this storm part 2

[overcom]

Hang in there. What have you been doing for your self-esteem all this time?

I bought a new self esteem workbook through amazon I'm waiting for. Other things, little things like dressing up, make up (not a lot just enough), doing hair, smelling good. Working on interacting with family and friends. I made 2 friends at work. I'm trying it's hard cause of my anxiety but I need to brake through my shell..

[MrBond]

Have you been working out on a regular basis or maybe tried meditating? Those do great to boost self-confidence.

[overcom]

It's in my goal to sign up at the gym this weekend. Ymca great for kids. No young people with hot bodies making me uncomfortable hahhaha jk. But yes I will start. I have lost already 40 lbs since February.

[overcom]

I was finally served with the divorce papers. ..I started crying and hes like you think this means anything their only paper... my response was yes it does . Means your free to be with your "wifey", your soulmate, and live happily ever after. And I drove off crying my eyes out with the kids in the car...

[Jpeg]

Why would he say that - it's only paper- then why do it?

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My friend says that he was being inSensitive. ..
I don't know. What you think he meant??

[gonegrl]

I think he meant he already has divorced you in his mind. I am sorry. You are going to get through this. Hang on, you are going to be ok.

[overcom]

I wish I was. I'm so broken and hurt especially this coming from him. Anyway it's over. No need to be dbing anymore

[WhyUs]

It is not over. It IS ONLY PAPER. He divorced you in his mind a long time ago. If you decide it is over that is ok. But don't let it be because of this. I know this is hard. I am praying for you. Chin up

[overcom]

You think I should keep fighting knowing he's choose her over me. A wife of 12 yrs amd the love of his life. I think he's found his new love