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Cross out on how to make friends part hahahahha


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I'm already getting anxiety thinking about it. Lol


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I find I have a lot of trouble breaking into groups of friends but have s lot more success going into it where everyone is a stranger. You may try to find some kind of meetup like that. I've seen like dinners for 8 where everyone is supposed to be a stranger.

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I am a turtle when I meet new ppl I go into my shell. Before I post here it takes me like 5 to 10 mins to encourage myself. I think eh why bore ppl with my problems. Lol and then I think meeting ppl will they like me or not.. stuff like that lol


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BD Jan 2015 EA/PA
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I was an introvert and really bad at mingling and small talk until BD. One of H's many complaints about me, he called me "socially retarded." I don't know what happened, but you should see me now. I have more friends than I can keep up with . Most of them were previous friends, who I just connected with more deeply because I "had to"- I just needed them. And now I am not going to say I know how to "work a room" or anything but I am fine in social situations. I think that H broke my heart so wide open that I just changed into a different person.

Overcom, is there a group at your church that you could join? Maybe a women's group, or a moms group? They are pretty welcoming.



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You guys I'm freaking out he brought the divorce papers.


Me 34 H 33
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Overcome,

I am so sorry you are going through this. I am the same age and i have two young kids like you. I know how hard this is. Just remember it is only paper. Get a good L and fight for you and your kids.


Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs
EA: Started 3/2015
MC Started: 4/2015
She moved out and served 6/2015
PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015
2 young kids

"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."
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He filed 50/50. Everything mutual.
I see my L on Wednesday. It's done. I have no more hope. Once he's done he's done. He won't come back. .. my life will never be the same.


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I'm done. cry cry cry cry

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BD Jan 2015 EA/PA
He moved out 2/2/2015
Came back 5/2015
Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015
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Hurting for you overcom. So so sorry.


Me:29 W:27
M: 4 years T: 5 years
No children
S: 7/7/15
EA: 7/7/15
BD/"I'm done": 7/15/15
MC: 7/7/15-8/21/15 (failed)
PA: 8/29/15
W Files for D: 9/9/15
D will finalize in 60 days
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