I guess I am playing catch up to my wife. She had emotionally separated herself from me for the last 4 months. I was pursuing, trying to fix things, not giving space. Now 3 weeks after she has moved out and filed for divorce. I am giving the space. Not answering her text or emails. Of course these messages are only about us separating our bills. I am wondering is all hope lost of getting back together? She seems so focused on moving on and getting divorced asap. Curious as to what others have done in this situation. The divorce process is a rolling and I'm like standing at the bottom of an avalanche it seems.