Honestly, I would still stay away from her. She sounds very indecisive.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
The other night was all about her. It was not about you! She will play the "poor me" card whenever she wants reassurance. In her world, everything is about her. She won't think about you, unless she sees you moving on without her.
Originally Posted By: Cadet
You can't speed up the process but you can slow it down. Sandi is trying to tell you how to get out of the way and stop slowing it down!
This takes so long as it is, we dont like to do anything that will slow it down. OK?
Originally Posted By: WhyUs
Remeber, it does not feel natural. If it does then your probably doing it wrong.
It was a rough weekend. You guys/gals are right.
But, it just hurts so bad. And I'm so confused. And scared. And hurt. And angry. And sad.
I'll try to post again soon. Thank you so much to all of you that took the time to respond. I sincerely appreciate it.
Those are normal and expected feelings for what your going through. Keep going on the path and things get better. The pain gets easier to manage over time.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be