Hey Mleigh4 Thanks for thinking of me, going to find ur thread now.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
Valentine Day This was the holiday where I discovered OW in 2013, I'm not always a big holiday celebrator (except for my Birthday & Christmas) but I like to celebrate a holiday about Love....
Well since 2013 not so much, last week once I realized this valentine would be on Sunday and I would be at Church I got very happy, last night I prayed to be able to look forward to Valentine again either with my H or a new person down the road, but this morning I was just happy to be going to church with my son.
H came to bed and said Happy Valentine, I said Thank You Got up this morning and there was a homemade handwritten valentine day card, inside was a heart and the words "you are the spring to my winter" another hand drawn and colored in red heart.
I made sure to tell H this was a very nice valentine card, the best one I have ever received. He also gave me a large box of chocolates.
Off to Church now, I guess I posted this for an update on my progress of how I planned to take back Valentine day despite what happened in 2013. No idea I would have a hand made card from H to also post about.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
When you least expect it, they can and will do something nice. Sounds like he put some thought into the card. I'm glad things turned out okay for you today. I hope you've got some "fun" plans for today and can just enjoy the day w/o all of the MLC drama that happened 3 years ago. It's time to reclaim Valentine's Day as one of your holidays to celebrate love.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
