Thing is, I know a lot of you are saying just to ignore the txting but, I think it was Sandi2 that said basically she may as well be rubbing dog poo in my face right now. so I'm glad I stuck to my guns.
The spew was incredible. Right there in front of S9. I did stay calm and did say could you please stop in front of S9. Of course the swagger and the anger overpowered her.
GB, she did threaten to call the police. Said I was being abusive. Ok I said, let me call them for you and started dialing the number. she backed out of that quickly and spent the rest of the night in her room.
I stayed with S9 the rest of the night giving him the reassurances that was almost word for word what GB said, although I didn't mention the OM.
And, OM got a message as well about the effect he's having on my family. OK I know that's out of bounds but right now I don't care. I hate to see my son scared and last night he was.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Well, that reaction was uncalled for and I think you're right to stick to your guns. She can't have it all ways. So, I gather she's off to her parents?
Stick with S as he needs you now.
Good luck and keep going. Here for you bud!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Well, that reaction was uncalled for and I think you're right to stick to your guns. She can't have it all ways. So, I gather she's off to her parents?
Stick with S as he needs you now.
Good luck and keep going. Here for you bud!
She bottled out of leaving. However I expect more today. Much more.
S9 was very upsets at night. She just can't contain herself. Ah well. Onwards and upwards.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
I know, right? Believe it or not, she was swaggering right in front of the two of us spewing about how 'we aren't married anymore'. Right there, in front of S9. Now that is not rational.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
That part of their brain has been shut down or has been removed by aliens. I bet she's feeling ashamed today (what am I saying, a rational person would be).
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
That part of their brain has been shut down or has been removed by aliens. I bet she's feeling ashamed today (what am I saying, a rational person would be).
Not sure about that. Did I mention about her trying to hold the door shut on me to lock me out? And this by the way while I'm being extremely calm. GB was right, they don't want their AP's messed with.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
She's not rational. I'm surprised that I haven't heard from her yet.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
She'll, no doubt, be resorting to the roundabout of validating her behaviour with her OM and friends. I can almost see her sat in a room somewhere sobbing about how NDY is such a nasty so and so - 'why won't he just let me have the house and I'll be happy'. Hang on, I've heard that line somewhere before.....
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
