V, just stopping by to give you a big hug!!((((( V ))))))
Hope you are doing better. Thank you for your encouraging words for me on my thread. You have such a nice way of looking at things. You have been my rock through all this. If we were closer, we could get together and bitch about our wayward spouses!!! LOL!!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
Sorry, I’ve been extremely busy and haven’t been on the DB Forum much at all for a few days. But I caught up with your sitch.
Maybe you will find a little comfort in this verse:
“But the Lord stood at my side and gave me strength” (2 Timothy 4:17).
{{{{{V}}}}}
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
So maybe you are out of the board taking that 48 hours nap you said would be good for some recovery?
Sweet pie, you are so loved by us all, I hope you really take it to your heart and embrace that life is not just what your Mad H showed you.
Like mine, your life has been quite a Hollywood movie, but maybe it is the way for tough people like us. We are just too stubborn to let life to bit us down.
You will be one piece again, your balance will be reestablished and you smile with pleasure once more. There is no bad that will last forever. Our Lord gives us trials so we can grow stronger and wiser and sure closer to him, we just need to believe.
I know you had some water troubles to take care after and hope it was resolved without much drama.
You are an strong and beautiful woman V, life will smile at you again and there will be lots of laughter yet. Time is our friend and we are learning something very important... we are worthy and we deserve to be happy.
Have a nice weekend, and please, answer RD, he is very worried you won't keep him in your heart. So bad, he is already betraying me going after my super friend V. And I still talk about hope related to these guys, we are all crazy to believe them....kkkkkkk
So maybe you are out of the board taking that 48 hours nap you said would be good for some recovery?
Sweet pie, you are so loved by us all, I hope you really take it to your heart and embrace that life is not just what your Mad H showed you.
Hi V,
I second what Pink wrote. I hope you are doing ok. I am a litte worried about you, too.
We hope to hear from you when you feel up to it and have time.
*Hugs*
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
V, I just got caught up. I am visualizing you as a phoenix rising from the ashes. I can't imagine how hard and heavy it is, but I know you will get off the ground. Although you must care for yourself, surf on the stress. It is what it is there for! You will be able to collapse and take a week in a friend's arms when the job is done, the body will let you at that point.
I am heartened to hear a complete lack of self pity, and practicality and strength - though you would have every right to it, and I know you must be hurting and terribly upset. I wish there was something tangible I could do for you. I used to run payrolls before my last career change.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
And another update ping from me and the bft lady v, how's it going?
Lots of positive thoughts and hugs from us both.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
