Sometimes a very scary or important moment shocks the system. Not every time does it stick, and you are doing right by still saying somewhat dark. Just don't fall into old tricks, and keep up doing what you are comfortable with. Don't over do anything, and stay within yourself. Hope everything works out for the medical part too, scary stuff in the hospital!!
Quick update W was in the hospital for 8 days. She wants to work at this, says it was easier to blame me for our relationship faults than to admit she has issues to work on. Said it was easier to run away rather that try to fix things. Her married friends have had some good talks with her. I think she has awakened. I am feeling good about things but still being cautious.
Me 44 Her 33 T 14 M 7 D 7 S 5 First bomb July 2014 Second bomb May 2015
Well sh1t I'm back here. Things were going well, had a nice family vacation at the start of July, things were going well. W started spending more and more time on her phone (it drives me nuts) Said the kids were starting to get to her and she needed time away. Long story short, the kids and I found her checked into a hotel over the weekend saying she needed a break from us. My gut tells me otherwise. Where did the women I fell in love with and marry go? Last week she was emotional and was talking about therapy for herself. She feels she does not know what she wants in life. MLC I think. She is too willing to throw away what we have built together over 13 years. She rewrites history to suit her. I have suggested couples therapy again.
Me 44 Her 33 T 14 M 7 D 7 S 5 First bomb July 2014 Second bomb May 2015
