New Thread!! V I really owe you!! I have panic attacks sometimes. You helped through this without a bad one!! Have a small headache and am still a little stressed but better than expected. I actually feel better to have talked to D. I was afraid to do it, she knew something was going on.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
I really owe Sandi alot!! She helped me realize that the feelings I was having about my situation were justified. I thought for a long time that it was all my fault. I did everything wrong and drove her to this job and this possible EA. (which she still denies) I know I have made some mistakes, and thanks to having to deal with this nightmare, I am able to work on these things.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
Just enforced boundary today about wife's phone sex operator job and about my marriage. I have also shared situation with D21 who has known about the problems we have been having and know knows why.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
I will swing by back later. I will need to read up your previous threads so I'll know the back story of your situation before offering up some thoughts and insights.
I will be away for a while...a few days.
V and others will continue to offer their support...they're doing great. You're in good hands here.
Not a very good evening with wife freaking out. She is texting D alot. And now texting me wanting me to get her birth certificate out and marriage license so she can go back to her maiden name because I am done with her. All I texted back was that I never said I was done with her.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
How can I be of service here? How can we help?