Separated 7 months...Less and less communication

[abbey1989]

Hi KML, thank you. I am looking after finances and getting everything in order and learning how to be happy living alone. Just surrounding myself with great friends and keeping active. Thanks for your kind words. I guess many folks after reading my sitch would say DIVORCE HIM! Am I so wrong to be so torn? Just so heartbroken over what this has done to our family.

[HeavyD]

Hi Abbey

I have read your posts and feel your pain through your posts.
I am so sorry you are dealing with all of this.

I share your heartbreak.

[abbey1989]

Hi Starsky,
When you say "put in the work" what do you mean? I know I always post, usually when I am most sad, with no one to really talk to and then disappear. Believe me I am facing this situation every minute of every day. I am a strong person and am working hard to make all other aspects of my life really good.

I do believe we are headed down the D road. Right now I am just trying to learn to be "me" again after 27 years together raising two kids and running a family business.

I think I'm getting there.....

[kml]

We need to go out for a margarita girlfriend. Doesn't that Mexican restaurant at the Forum have good ones?

[123Gwen]

Stopping by to check on you Abbye. Hope you are doing well. Lots of people here are supporting you. Let us know how you're doing.