Hi - My wife had me arrested on 1/1/15 - not saying I am a saint but my lawyer thinks it was maybe some sort of set up. Since then, my in-laws have moved into my house (live in VA, they in FL) to take care of her and the kids (b-13 and g-11). They do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and parenting. My wife got a job. Her parents are the biggest advocate for the D. Any advice? Has anyone recovered from this? Me - 49 her 46 M = 23 years Kids - b=13, g=11
You may be on moderation now, post in small frequent replies and stay on this thread until you reach 100 posts (for your thread, you can also post on other peoples threads to give support). Especially on this Newcomers forum, where the posting activity is very active, and your posts can quickly fall to the bottom of the page or even several pages down. Keep journaling and asking questions - people will come! Most important - POST!
Get out and Get a Life (GAL). DETACH.
Believe none of what he or she says and half of what he/she does.
Have NO EXPECTATIONS.
Take care of yourself, breathe, eat, sleep, exercise.
Take the parts of this advice that you need and don't worry if I have repeated something that you have already done.
Here are a few links to threads that will help you immensely:
