Along the same lines as some of the other members, where are you F? If you are doing it tough, we are here for you. Just let us know you are safe. You don't have to tell us anymore.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
Haven't heard from him since he and his new love interest was getting on pretty heavy. I was concerned that new R was moving at a too rapid speed. I would like to know how he's doing.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!