Last few months have been gettin better and better ,( to sometimes i'm to pushy , we talk alot about our future and getting new jobs. We have had alot of fun lately also , After all that was said and done sometimes you ask why stay with that other person ( wife in my case./ husband ) I relized after reading the books and posters and advice off this site how much i really care about my wife , don't know how this will all turn out in the end , but its proof that all you need is to make yourself better and you always win in the end..
Never give up on the ones you love...It only hurts you more in the end..
Blahh , I messed up badly today , me and wife were both fustrated for various reasons , and she said something I took the wrong way and got mad at her and said thats it, were done , you dont want me anymore anyways =[...I stormed into another room and reality kicke in " what was I thinking" , went back in room with W , and said sorry , her feelings truly were hurt..
Been doin alot of thinking lately,
The lack of physical emotions bug me alot , she seems dead set on not talkin about whats bothering her ( I hope this can be fixed in time , as I see it as my biggest task for her to prove she wants us to last)
I trully love my wife more than i did when i married her most dayz , tho I really cant figure out whats bothering her , Sometimes I think she has lost that love , sometimes I think shes so hurt for what she did , everytime i try to talk to her she says nothing's bothering her..
I think i know how or marriage can be 125% better than it ever was and includes knowing of really went on during affairs ( the why it happen , and other non graphic details) ,and to know 100% shes in this for the long haul , and of course get her the house of hr dreams.....
My biggest questions that need to be answerd are:
Does she think about me
Does she compare me to OG
What's missing in their relationship
Will she burn out
Will she make it work
Is she working on us or herself
Is she happy
Can she get over the fact she hd affairs
Is to much lost for us
Last edited by hurtinbad1; 06/21/0306:12 PM.
Never give up on the ones you love...It only hurts you more in the end..
, me and wife were both fustrated for various reasons , and she said something I took the wrong way and got mad at her and said thats it, were done , you dont want me anymore anyways =[...I stormed into another room and reality kicke in " what was I thinking" , went back in room with W , and said sorry , her feelings truly were hurt..
, tho I really cant figure out whats bothering her , Sometimes I think she has lost that love , sometimes I think shes so hurt for what she did , everytime i try to talk to her she says nothing's bothering her..