Stay strong Bert and listen to the VERY wise people you are fortunate to have chiming in here. I am sober in AA too, just a couple years now, I am a much better person, don't intend to go back, but I hurt my WAW quite a bit over the years. Trying now to give her the space she needs. This is the hardest thing I have ever done... I feel your pain.
H49 W48 She left 12/25/2013
SS26 SS 24 D20 S19 D 18
Wife moved out left 17, 18 an 19 yr olds at home when I was incarcerated for tax evasion to take a job and live 4 hours away.