That's what i figured. It's just the way she was so nonchalant about it that was killing me. I have an idea of what to expect, and an idea of how to handle it. It's getting easier, and my discipline is getting better
You need to detach mate, I know it's hard and killing you, and be careful what you say, don't loose you're temper they remember everything and will keep bringing it up, she will try pushing buttons to make you angry. Best thing you can do at this stage is just ignore it and do you're own thing, do things to make YOU happy
I'm careful with what i say. Ido ignore what she says and does, and I do things that make me happy. I can tell when she's trying to start a fight because she wants me to get upset, and I just let it roll of my back. It's not easy, but I'm doing a lot better than before
You're doing good eleven keep doing what you are doing, I remember my W at the same stage, one night she had this massive rant over nothing, I let her finish then looked her in the eyes and said I'm ordering takeaway pizza would you like some and just walked away
Just ranting, but my wife just started putting up the Christmas tree and listening to Christmas music. First song: oh come all ye faithful. Seriously, I couldn't make this up.
Been sticking to the plan. No changes, but no expectations either. Probably haven't spent more than a couple hours at home at the same time all weekend. It's getting alittle easier to react without emotion, but she tries. Oh how she tries.
yeah its not what she was expecting thats good from my experience,i would buy some new clothes let her see you wearing them and do a disappearing act even if you just go for a drive somewhere that will make her think
change the time you get in from work if you always walk through the door at say 5pm then sometimes walk in at 6pm become mysterious and unpredictable and tell her nothing unless she asks then be vague with your explanation These things worked for me but I'm no veteran here
