Telk, I'm sorry, I read OM when you were typing OW. Thanks for straightening me out Wonka. Be sure to listen closely to Wonka, he has helped many many people on this board.
M42 W40 T17 M15 S13 S11 BD 7-14 A discovered 7-14 WAW moved out 10-3-14 D final 2-23-15
Another BD. Me and wife had an argument. Its so hard to get away from these at this point currently. She has been planning and I sort of felt it coming but she wants me to move out. We didnt talk details or anything like that but we were both upset. She ended up sleeping on couch and I slept in bed. I called into work today just b/c I knew I could not focus.
I handle most of finances and I do not see how it will work. Also should I even agree to move out or just ignore this claim and keep working on my 180?
I spoke to her about maybe doing the 2 day session in the Boulder office. She didnt say no but also not like she was on board. I just do not know where to go from here. She told me we had bigger issues than just the A. I told her we could fix everything messed up in our marriage but I cant fix the A if she will not give it up. So that is where we are at this morning. I was kind to her this morning and helped get kids ready for school. I am usually not here for that.
My problem with moving out is she wants me to move to city I work in. I work 1:30 min away. I would never see kids and I just dont want to put them through this. Just really confused currently.
M33/W34 Kids:8,6,4,1 Married:9 Together:16 BD:04/14 --OW Still living together
Moving out will put you at a disadvantage legally if it comes to divorce if my understanding is correct. You should not move out. Talk to a lawyer before moving out.
M 16 T 17 W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14 ILYBNIL 5/14 A discovered 6/14 D papers served via USPS 8/14 Filed my response 9/14 D final 5/15...
Moving out will put you at a disadvantage legally if it comes to divorce if my understanding is correct. You should not move out. Talk to a lawyer before moving out.
I spoke with a friend who has went through divorce. Different reason than mine but did say not to move out due to making divorce easier.
M33/W34 Kids:8,6,4,1 Married:9 Together:16 BD:04/14 --OW Still living together
