ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
...and so it begins. I guess I WAW is already getting angry for my no reply....just got this snotty text... "I'll send your condolences."
She's already mad and it's only 6 hours later since she first texted.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
I guess so Maybell. Sandi did say WAW would get mad but even I thought she'd take a day or two.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
keep at the silence IH. you will get through this!
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
Can you see how she was using that contact to get a reaction from you? She expected immediate response from you b/c she had two things going.....your BD and her aunt's passing. See how quickly her fangs came out when you didn't acknowledge her text?
It will get worse, so brace yourself.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
I hope so Pilot. I feel kind of mean since part of her text involved a death but they weren't really close to this woman. As I said, in 18 years with WAW even I only saw her 3 or 4 times so I am trying not to feel bad for being totally silent. I just know she's going to send another nasty text later too...or an e- mail.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
Hey Sandi...our posts crossed again. Yup she's ticked off now so I am ready. I can handle whatever she says...with no reply!!
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
Oh no...she just tried to call me...I let voicemail get it! Here we go...
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
Since she mentioned her aunt dying, just send her a text saying "Sorry to hear about your aunt. Hope your family is doing well." And then leave it at that.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
