I have been separated for 5 yrs. h left for other woman after our 25 yrs of marriage. i had to file for divorce 2 yrs ago because i didnt want to get screwed financially. it has been a long difficult process. the court date is this wed. H is still living with ow. it will still make me sad if he marries her. i still have some anger over how she destroyed my family. H is probably a millionaire now and she will reap the benefit of all the years i stood by my husband supporting him and helping to build our business. Very sad its ending like this. But i will move forward with God's help
Sorry to hear that it has finally come to this and I hope you are doing well. Can you fill us in as to what you've been doing?
"H is probably a millionaire now and she will reap the benefit of all the years i stood by my husband supporting him and helping to build our business. "
You're still full of resentment and have never detached. We were all pushing for that, but you had a difficult time letting go. Even after several years. What have you been doing with yourself?
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I have been going to school for medical coding. i just completed it but most co. want some one experienced. I own a dog walking business so i do that part time now not many clients though. i need to get more some how. i also play tennis often with a group. i see my boyfriend often too. He treats me very well and is a good person. My son is doing well he is in college and has a girlfriend.
Hi Rock yes d is a terrible thing for everyone involved especially the children. Thanks for your response. Divorce court tomorrow at 9am . We were together 30 yrs. married 26, the first 25 were pretty good. Have to look forward not back, life is short.
Hi, rys, I haven't been coming here very often, and haven't posted for a long time, either. I have from time to time come to check up on those I really got to care about, wondering how they were. I really felt for you, the way you were always so sad much of the time. Trying to figure it all out. I am sorry to see your marriage wasn't saved. I can understand the bitterness you still feel, that your husband will now share what he has with ow. instead of you.
However, I sense a new strength in you, too. I am really glad to see that. You have become a stronger person because of what you have been through, and that will stand you in good stead throughout the years to come.
I am really happy your son is doing well in college. He is just a year behind my son, who will be a senior this fall.
While I am sorry you are now D, I really hope for the best for you in whatever your future holds for you.