Not sure what the symbol of "show me" means on this site but
I meant to cross thru the "She does not love you" b/c I feel strongly that we cannot know that and it's a harsh statement to make.
Too much mind reading plus I don't believe it anyhow. If she truly does not love him, then it's over and he should just give up b/c there's no hope.
And I'm far from ready to say that, but the main thing is that YOU HAVE TO WORK ON YOU AND STOP STARING AT HER...I know you're young.
But have a "big picture" view now...okay?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
fwiw, I don't read much -- if anything -- in HS's post and 25's that even contradicts the other. HS said "to her" (indicating a wayward's mindset), and similarly instructed the OP to work on himself.
How would I validate if she said "I want a divorce"? I would say "I completely understand why you would feel that way. I didn't treat you with the respect that you deserved, and I hurt you deeply- I regret that." End. Don't keep jabbering. That's it. Let her feel understood- that's what she needs, not you trying to make excuses, or continue on with "...but, I....."!
When you can validate her statements while not letting yourself to fall into the pattern you have of justifying yourself or pleading your case, then your DB Kung Fu is strong. .
As for buying a car, thinking that will bring you together- don't be a sucker. That's an immature "fix it quick and easy" way of thinking. A car won't being you together, neither will a child nor any other "thing" you can think of. For her, it's emotional, pure and simple.
Click to reveal..
She does not love you, and when you don't love someone you
Yikes, I don't believe WE know how SHE feels....nor would I ever tell someone this. Maybe it's just me but it seems like a majorly defeatist attitude, with a big does of mind reading.
but it's clear she isn't in the mood to give you any reassurances. I happen to believe most people who were once in love, enough to MARRY, don't stop loving so fast. But there are other emotions covering that love up right now, like frustration and anger and disappointment.
The only choice you have now, regardless of whether you think the m can be saved, is to BECOME A MAN ONLY A FOOL WOULD LEAVE, and stfu.
Seriously, this is your last lap and if you cannot handle it, if you really cannot sustain change for a full 48 hours.....
then she may feel she is better off with someone who can control themselves better, and you know, cope.
But I'm sorry you are hurt. I know it stinks, but I cannot see how this changes things. I mean, if you feel it's a full on physical affair AND IF you don't think you can ever get past this, then move on. NO choice....but you still need to make those changes.
And if you believe you might be able to move past a possible affair, then you still need to stfu and make those changes.
See, ^^^?? Same course of action for YOU regardless...
feel trapped and that you have to get out. She's in escape mode. The best that you can hope for is that you can get a hold of yourself, make yourself strong and emotionally attractive, and make small "deposits" into her love bank until she starts to like you again. It's a long process: come to peace with that.
It's no surprise to me that there is someone else in the picture. The way she was deceptive in her texts (avoiding directly answering questions about seeing anyone else, not "trusting herself" etc.) plus her lying about where she was spelled it right out to me. Trust me, you will make no progress until that ends.
-hs
I feel as if that approach^^ is an excuse to play the victim and not look in the mirror.
You will make no progress in your life without changing YOURSELF, which is the only person you control. Worrying about when her affair ends will get you nowhere.
You have NO control over that, but you do control yourself. You can become the better choice.
Spend NO TIME thinking of OM. That's beneath the new, improved you, right?
No pleading or begging for reassurance. GIVE DBing a CHANCE!!
The OM is just a normal guy thats married and shes come clean.. she told me beforw anyways.. he was just someone that was trying to give her advice.. I got my friends in high places to get me a picture of him and his address and now I know everything about him and did this in 2 hrs.. I threatened him that if me and her divorce I will get him and everyone in his house.. his willing to help because he still thinks im a good guy apparantly.. but she defo wants a divorce after todays convo she defo wants me out in 2 weeks.. yesterday it was a case where shes still deciding but now shes made her mind up.. I have no choice.. I guess I have 2 get onto the LRT now?
[13/06 09:59] *ME*: What u got planned for today then [13/06 10:00] *HER*: Y do u keep asking me about today????? This is the fourth tym.... Its so fuckin annoying! [13/06 10:01] *HER*: Im sureu got ppl followin me by now theyl tell what i was up o the whole day stop fuckin asking me! [13/06 10:01] *ME*: Wtf I was asking [13/06 10:01] *ME*: Earlier I only asked about sana [13/06 10:01] *ME*: Damn man [13/06 10:01] *HER*: How many tyms are u gna ask! [13/06 10:02] *HER*: Yh if i wer linkin sana [13/06 10:02] *ME*: I was just talking [13/06 10:02] *HER*: This is the same thing but diff wording [13/06 10:02] *ME*: Woteva man [13/06 10:02] *HER*: Screw u! Dnt need this bushyt [13/06 10:03] *ME*: Dont wry bwt it... [13/06 10:04] *ME*: I got work to do. [13/06 11:10] *HER*: Fynd ur own place i want u gone [13/06 11:16] *ME*: I will then because I cant deal with you lieing to me [13/06 11:16] *ME*: Your speaking to guys [13/06 11:16] *ME*: If it was a girl u ckdve spoke to them on the day u passed ur test in front of me [13/06 11:17] *ME*: Instead u called him wen u went shop [13/06 11:17] *ME*: N then again wen u wrnt market [13/06 11:17] *ME*: I cant do this [13/06 11:17] *HER*: Well u kno wer the door it [13/06 11:17] *ME*: I dnt wnt to be with someone thats going to lie to me [13/06 11:17] *ME*: I dnt wnt to be with someone who will chat to guys [13/06 11:17] *ME*: I dnt even know what u did last wednesday [13/06 11:18] *ME*: The next day u msged dem [13/06 11:18] *ME*: N they had that numb since last wednesday [13/06 11:18] *ME*: Because I know [13/06 11:18] *ME*: They activated it 4th of june [13/06 11:18] *ME*: Day b4 ur test [13/06 11:19] *ME*: If I rly want I can pull up the call recording [13/06 11:19] *ME*: But thats way 2 much hassle [13/06 11:20] *ME*: U want me gone ill gi [13/06 11:20] *ME*: I wld never have done this to you [13/06 11:20] *HER*: I dnt care uv dne enuf as it is which led me to do what im duin [13/06 11:20] *ME*: Like I said u tell me to gi n ill gi [13/06 11:20] *HER*: Then go!! [13/06 11:20] *HER*: I am tellin u [13/06 11:20] *HER*: Or do u not get it [13/06 11:20] *ME*: So why u saying swear to god its a girl [13/06 11:21] *HER*: Im dne with u... [13/06 11:21] *ME*: When we both no its a guy [13/06 11:21] *HER*: And im sure u r to [13/06 11:21] *HER*: Id love to see u fynd a a gyal hu dnt talk to guys [13/06 11:22] *HER*: Just fynd ur place and leave [13/06 11:22] *ME*: not wen there married [13/06 11:22] *ME*: Its obviously v [13/06 11:22] *ME*: B [13/06 11:22] *HER*: [censored] this car business [13/06 11:22] *ME*: U say swear to god and lie [13/06 11:22] *HER*: U think i lied [13/06 11:22] *HER*: U think alot of shyt like ur parents [13/06 11:22] *ME*: No [13/06 11:22] *ME*: U did lie [13/06 11:22] *HER*: Anyways im tellin u to go do y u still talkin [13/06 11:22] *ME*: I got clear proof [13/06 11:22] *HER*: Cool u do well good for u [13/06 11:23] *HER*: Not the end of the world [13/06 11:23] *ME*: How far have u gone with him [13/06 11:23] *ME*: Its obviously b [13/06 11:23] *ME*: We both no [13/06 11:23] *ME*: U saw him last Wednesday's [13/06 11:23] *ME*: But said ur seeing henni [13/06 11:24] *HER*: K [13/06 11:24] *ME*: Why cant u jus tell me the truth [13/06 11:24] *ME*: Y do u have 2 say its a girl [13/06 11:24] *ME*: Y do u have 2 go behind my back [13/06 11:24] *ME*: Ur married do u not care what swear to god will say [13/06 11:25] *ME*: N then ur choosing between me n him [13/06 11:25] *HER*: Lol oh please! [13/06 11:25] *HER*: If i wer gna choose i would have dne that tyyyym ago [13/06 11:26] *ME*: So whats going on then [13/06 11:26] *HER*: Nuffink [13/06 11:26] *ME*: Ur gna stay with me but still do god knows what u do with him [13/06 11:26] *ME*: I dnt no what u do [13/06 11:26] *ME*: N not saying u do anything I just dnt no [13/06 11:26] *HER*: Y would i stay with u and do shyt with him? [13/06 11:27] *ME*: I dnt no [13/06 11:27] *ME*: U wldnt [13/06 11:27] *ME*: I guess [13/06 11:27] *HER*: Well its ur theory u should kno [13/06 11:27] *ME*: But ur talkin to him n seeing him [13/06 11:27] *ME*: So if ur doing that now.. [13/06 11:27] *ME*: Whys it so difficult for u 2 stop talkin 2 guys [13/06 11:28] *ME*: N then u say ur not doin anything n then say wot ive dun has kead u 2 do what ur doing [13/06 11:28] *ME*: N what r u doing [13/06 11:28] *HER*: Nuffink [13/06 11:29] *ME*: So why r u talkin 2 him for [13/06 11:29] *HER*: Y are u keeping tabs on me [13/06 11:29] *HER*: Ur vheckin my shyt and my mates stuff [13/06 11:29] *ME*: Because u lie [13/06 11:29] *HER*: How low will u go [13/06 11:29] *ME*: Not lower than wot ur doing [13/06 11:29] *HER*: I mean hr parents r pretty low so i see wer u get it frm [13/06 11:30] *HER*: Like sed its ur fault [13/06 11:30] *ME*: No its not [13/06 11:30] *HER*: Yep [13/06 11:30] *ME*: Ur responsible for ur own actions [13/06 11:30] *ME*: So coz I neglected u.. u went n got wiv sum1 else wen we r still married [13/06 11:31] *HER*: I never got with neone ese [13/06 11:31] *ME*: But ur seeing someone n speakin 2 em [13/06 11:31] *ME*: N sayin its a girl [13/06 11:31] *ME*: N lieing n saying swear to god its not [13/06 11:31] *ME*: Wtf [13/06 11:32] *ME*: Seriously wtf [13/06 11:32] *ME*: U [censored] lied about b [13/06 11:33] *ME*: N then u guys went n got a sim for him on wednesday so I wont clock [13/06 11:33] *HER*: Wow [13/06 11:33] *HER*: Call him [13/06 11:33] *HER*: Speak to him urself [13/06 11:34] *ME*: I dont believe u ir him [13/06 11:34] *ME*: U guys lie [13/06 11:34] *HER*: Ten believe what u want [13/06 11:34] *HER*: I dnt care [13/06 11:34] *ME*: 07535 022613 [13/06 11:34] *ME*: Thats a guy [13/06 11:34] *ME*: Or is this a new guy now [13/06 11:34] *HER*: Hu nos [13/06 11:34] *ME*: N then u say I made u do wot ur doing [13/06 11:35] *ME*: His got ur pic up on whatsapp even [13/06 11:35] *ME*: Laying on a bed [13/06 11:35] *ME*: Its u coz its ur body figure n ur jeans [13/06 11:35] *HER*: Wtf! [13/06 11:35] *HER*: Sumink seriously wrng wiv u [13/06 11:35] *ME*: Woteva [13/06 11:35] *ME*: U make me think this [censored] from ur lies [13/06 11:36] *ME*: U lie n speak to guys [13/06 11:36] *ME*: But then say that ur gna stay with me for my sake [13/06 11:36] *ME*: U were gna stay with me n do this? [13/06 11:37] *ME*: How did u get that persons numb wen they got it themself on the 4th [13/06 11:39] *ME*: N then u say 2 me 3days later if ur pussy felt diff [13/06 11:39] *ME*: Omdaiz [13/06 11:39] *ME*: !!!!!! [13/06 11:40] *HER*: Perfect!!! [13/06 11:40] *ME*: *HER* are you cheating on me? [13/06 11:40] *HER*: No man [13/06 11:41] *ME*: So why r u chattin 2 guys behind my back [13/06 11:41] *ME*: Y did u say it was a girl but it wernt [13/06 11:41] *ME*: ? [13/06 11:41] *HER*: Yes it is [13/06 11:41] *HER*: How can u prove its a guy [13/06 11:41] *HER*: U cant [13/06 11:42] *HER*: Ur guessin coz ur paro [13/06 11:42] *ME*: I called em [13/06 11:42] *HER*: Now ur thinkin im fuckin [13/06 11:42] *HER*: Another guy [13/06 11:42] *HER*: Ur reeeeeal smart [13/06 11:42] *ME*: No I dont think that [13/06 11:42] *ME*: I didnt say that [13/06 11:42] *HER*: Insirectly [13/06 11:42] *ME*: I dont think u would do that [13/06 11:42] *HER*: Screw u.. And u think this would work? [13/06 11:43] *ME*: I dnt think anymore [13/06 11:43] *ME*: I act on facts [13/06 11:43] *ME*: I do think that u r talking 2 guys behind my back [13/06 11:43] *ME*: I do think they r probably just friends [13/06 11:43] *HER*: I dnt care what u fink [13/06 11:43] *HER*: Im so dne hea [13/06 11:43] *HER*: Its best we gi our own ways [13/06 11:44] *HER*: No way this can eva work [13/06 11:44] *HER*: Im sure u s that for urself [13/06 11:44] *ME*: Yeah I do [13/06 11:44] *ME*: Because u keep talkin to guys [13/06 11:44] *HER*: Xactly [13/06 11:44] *ME*: It could have worked [13/06 11:44] *HER*: So start looking [13/06 11:44] *ME*: But not like this [13/06 11:44] *HER*: U think i do but u cant prove it [13/06 11:44] *HER*: And as far as im concerned i dnt care what u fink [13/06 11:44] *ME*: No u do [13/06 11:44] *ME*: I have proof [13/06 11:45] *HER*: Oh yh [13/06 11:45] *ME*: It will never work [13/06 11:45] *HER*: Whats dat [13/06 11:45] *ME*: It cant work [13/06 11:45] *ME*: Never like this [13/06 11:45] *ME*: I was blind [13/06 11:45] *ME*: Ur not the girl I fell in love with [13/06 11:45] *ME*: Uve changed [13/06 11:45] *ME*: N I dont no what uve become [13/06 11:45] *HER*: U aint got proof [13/06 11:45] *HER*: N no im not d same gyal [13/06 11:46] *ME*: Like u said u dnt no wot ur capable of [13/06 11:46] *ME*: Im done [13/06 11:46] *ME*: I am so done [13/06 11:46] *HER*: Jus go man stop this talk [13/06 11:46] *ME*: I cant do this [13/06 11:46] *ME*: I can b with someone who will talk 2 guys behind my back [13/06 11:46] *ME*: Maybe even see them [13/06 11:46] *ME*: Tell me they r seeing their friend but rly n truelly see someone else [13/06 11:46] *ME*: Or woteva [13/06 11:46] *HER*: Ok k [13/06 11:47] *ME*: Someone who will keep lieing until I shove da proof in their face [13/06 11:47] *ME*: U lied to the limit [13/06 11:47] *HER*: Lol what proof [13/06 11:47] *ME*: I made u say swear to god [13/06 11:47] *HER*: U aint gt nuffink [13/06 11:47] *ME*: N then wen I finally told u about how long u spoke 2 b [13/06 11:47] *ME*: U finally admitted it [13/06 11:47] *ME*: U looked at me n lied [13/06 11:47] *ME*: U could see my hurt in my eyes n u didnt care [13/06 11:48] *HER*: Jus coz u always assume stuff n threaten me with it dnt mean ima admit to it all the tym n if i dnt im lieing ryt [13/06 11:48] *ME*: With u *HER* u think u dnt need to admit anything until I proove it [13/06 11:48] *ME*: No u lied [13/06 11:48] *HER*: Cool big deal [13/06 11:48] *ME*: Because it wernt bwt admitting [13/06 11:48] *HER*: U hurt me n now ur hurtin [13/06 11:48] *ME*: U lied n said u spoke 2 him for 2 months [13/06 11:48] *HER*: Karma no? [13/06 11:48] *ME*: Abwt 2 3 tyms [13/06 11:49] *ME*: I neva spoke 2 girls behind ur back [13/06 11:49] *ME*: Ever [13/06 11:49] *ME*: Let alone see [13/06 11:49] *HER*: I thought we wer talking abt the current issue u got [13/06 11:49] *ME*: Who eva I spoke 2 I always told u [13/06 11:49] *HER*: Or u only gna talk abt what u proved me weng in [13/06 11:49] *ME*: No [13/06 11:49] *ME*: Coz this is similar [13/06 11:49] *ME*: Ur not gna admit it until I show u proof [13/06 11:50] *ME*: This wont work [13/06 11:50] *HER*: If i admit to it or not it dnt matter [13/06 11:50] *ME*: I was soo blind [13/06 11:50] *HER*: Ur ryt its not [13/06 11:50] *ME*: U were right if I stay with u im only gna get hurt [13/06 11:50] *ME*: It does matter [13/06 11:51] *ME*: U [censored] cheated on me [13/06 11:51] *ME*: N wen I show u proof u blame it on me by sayin u pushed me 2 it [13/06 11:51] *ME*: Wtf [13/06 11:51] *HER*: K [13/06 11:51] *ME*: U lied 2 me aaliya n mahedi that day wen u said u spoke 2 b [13/06 11:51] *ME*: Bwt 2 times [13/06 11:51] *ME*: I told mahedi obviously at the time [13/06 11:52] *HER*: Wot [13/06 11:52] *ME*: Maybe he told aaloya n maybe she feels disgusted in u that she doesnt wna involve herself with u [13/06 11:52] *HER*: Lol ok [13/06 11:52] *ME*: Because everyone knows whoevas married n talks 2 other guys r not a good person [13/06 11:52] *ME*: Thats the worse [13/06 11:52] *ME*: I wld neva have done that [13/06 11:53] *ME*: Again im asking you why are you talking to guys behind my back [13/06 11:53] *ME*: N who is this guy coz he sound like b? [13/06 11:53] *HER*: U think its b [13/06 11:54] *HER*: U think everyone is b [13/06 11:54] *ME*: He sounded exactly like him [13/06 11:54] *ME*: Who is it then [13/06 11:54] *HER*: Good for u then [13/06 11:54] *ME*: If its not b [13/06 11:54] *HER*: Its a gyal [13/06 11:54] *ME*: That sounds like a guy yh [13/06 11:55] *HER*: Lol [13/06 11:55] *HER*: Hu nos [13/06 11:55] *ME*: Im so done now [13/06 11:55] *ME*: Its either u change this lieing bullshit [13/06 11:55] *ME*: N try make it work [13/06 11:55] *ME*: Or we get a divorce n go [13/06 11:55] *ME*: Up 2 u [13/06 11:56] *HER*: Divorce [13/06 11:56] *ME*: Ok fine its a divorce [13/06 11:56] *HER*: K [13/06 11:56] *ME*: Tell me something wot were u gna do in august [13/06 11:57] *ME*: What was u gna day [13/06 11:57] *ME*: Divorce or stay together [13/06 11:57] *ME*: N b honest [13/06 11:57] *HER*: Duno [13/06 11:57] *HER*: And it wernt gna b august [13/06 11:57] *ME*: U no u do [13/06 11:57] *ME*: Wen was it gna b [13/06 11:57] *HER*: Duno [13/06 11:57] *HER*: Just go thisdnt make a diff [13/06 11:57] *ME*: No [13/06 11:57] *ME*: Just tell me [13/06 11:57] *HER*: I dont no [13/06 11:58] *ME*: Was it gna b before august [13/06 11:58] *HER*: Well yh [13/06 11:59] *ME*: N if u decided to stay it wldve been told to me before august [13/06 11:59] *HER*: I dont no [13/06 11:59] *HER*: Eiva way its not gna work [13/06 11:59] *ME*: No its not [13/06 11:59] *HER*: So i probs wasnt gna stay [13/06 12:00] *HER*: So y u askin me shyt for [13/06 12:00] *ME*: Well 1 way it wldve [13/06 12:00] *ME*: If u stopped lieing [13/06 12:00] *ME*: N stopped talkin 2 guys [13/06 12:00] *HER*: Just go [13/06 12:00] *HER*: I cat do this anymore i wnt do it it not worth it [13/06 12:00] *ME*: But u wld have not done that [13/06 12:00] *HER*: Dne wot [13/06 12:00] *ME*: It was worth it [13/06 12:01] *HER*: Nope it wasnt [13/06 12:01] *ME*: Stopped talkin 2 guys [13/06 12:01] *ME*: Why wouldnt have worked [13/06 12:01] *HER*: Coz i dt wana b in this u kno [13/06 12:01] *ME*: So if u stayed u feel u wkd have cracked [13/06 12:02] *HER*: Yep [13/06 12:02] *HER*: Im sorry [13/06 12:02] *HER*: I dnt wana crack again n i wnt stay [13/06 12:02] *HER*: Its best for both of us [13/06 12:02] *ME*: Yh I see that now [13/06 12:02] *ME*: I wish it worked [13/06 12:02] *ME*: I wish it never got to this [13/06 12:02] *HER*: Oh well [13/06 12:03] *ME*: I dnt no what I want anymore [13/06 12:03] *ME*: I thought I wanted u but ur not my *HER* no more [13/06 12:03] *ME*: Im having to share u [13/06 12:03] *ME*: N it just cant work [13/06 12:03] *ME*: Im one of a crowd [13/06 12:03] *HER*: Fuckin hell ok cool i get it [13/06 12:04] *ME*: No u dnt [13/06 12:04] *ME*: U knew u wldve left anyway in august [13/06 12:04] *ME*: I dnt know why I even tried [13/06 12:04] *ME*: Im not gna say I shldnt have changed because that I did for myself [13/06 12:05] *ME*: This new number whats the oerson name [13/06 12:05] *HER*: Dnt matter [13/06 12:05] *ME*: Whats his namr [13/06 12:05] *HER*: Lol [13/06 12:05] *HER*: Dnt natter [13/06 12:06] *ME*: How can u say lol ryt now [13/06 12:06] *HER*: Coz im thru with this [13/06 12:06] *HER*: Im so dne [13/06 12:06] *ME*: U broke us [13/06 12:06] *ME*: By doing this [13/06 12:06] *HER*: No u did [13/06 12:06] *ME*: By talking to guys [13/06 12:06] *ME*: No [13/06 12:07] *HER*: U broke us wen u pick drugs and ur boys over me [13/06 12:07] *ME*: Just remember ur kids r gna do what ur doing [13/06 12:07] *HER*: First 9 konths [13/06 12:07] *HER*: Wtf [13/06 12:07] *HER*: Oh well ill deal with it then [13/06 12:07] *ME*: Its not as worse as talking to guys [13/06 12:07] *ME*: Or wotever else [13/06 12:08] *ME*: U cant blame me for checking up n having my friends check tmobile records [13/06 12:08] *ME*: 4 me [13/06 12:08] *HER*: Cool *ME* uno wot im the [censored] up on im the reason y this has happened im the reson y u did what u did i get it but ther is no point of chatin shyt abt it just pick up ur stuff and leave!! This aint gna work so y u constantly talkin abt it over n over again!!!! [13/06 12:08] *ME*: Because end of the day u lied n I didnt have an option [13/06 12:08] *ME*: Becoz u wldnt tell me [13/06 12:08] *HER*: Cool i get it an u won according to u ur ryt im wrng now y dnt u just leave me alone!! [13/06 12:09] *ME*: It aint about winning [13/06 12:09] *ME*: I will leave [13/06 12:09] *ME*: I hope u the best with ur guy mates [13/06 12:09] *HER*: Thanks [13/06 12:09] *ME*: Its ok [13/06 12:10] *ME*: But I will now find b [13/06 12:10] *ME*: If his on tmob n has a contract ill get my friends to get his address n stuff from their records [13/06 12:10] *ME*: N I will go n break his house n [censored] him up [13/06 12:11] *HER*: Well i guess i better call b then [13/06 12:11] *ME*: I thought u deleted his numb [13/06 12:11] *HER*: I thought u deleted his number [13/06 12:11] *HER*: Lies [13/06 12:11] *ME*: I have [13/06 12:11] *ME*: I can get my friend 2 bring it up from ur tmob bill [13/06 12:12] *HER*: N i can get it from my bills [13/06 12:12] *ME*: Im through with u [13/06 12:12] *ME*: Im gna stay there til august n then just go [13/06 12:12] *ME*: I dnt wna go 2 my parents [13/06 12:12] *HER*: No ur not [13/06 12:12] *ME*: Im jus gna find my own place [13/06 12:13] *HER*: U wernt gna stay hea till agu neways [13/06 12:13] *ME*: Or b4 august if I find it [13/06 12:13] *HER*: Ur not stayin hea [13/06 12:13] *HER*: U can fynd sumink within 2 weeks [13/06 12:13] *ME*: If I do [13/06 12:13] *HER*: Dnt take a genius to fynd a place [13/06 12:13] *HER*: If not i will fynd on for u today!!! [13/06 12:13] *ME*: I dnt want ur help [13/06 12:13] *ME*: I dont want nothing from u [13/06 12:13] *HER*: Well then leave! [13/06 12:14] *ME*: Jus the truth [13/06 12:14] *ME*: But ur not capable of tellin the truth [13/06 12:14] *ME*: If u honestly told me the truth n told me u wernt gna talk 2 guys [13/06 12:15] *HER*: Truth dnt matter [13/06 12:15] *HER*: U know it dnt u [13/06 12:15] *HER*: Get ur boys to tell u [13/06 12:15] *HER*: Or follow me [13/06 12:16] *ME*: Well end of the day make ur mind coz ur just hurting me so much [13/06 12:16] *HER*: Fuuny how ur gna go beat up b wen u dnt even kno that i dnt talk to him [13/06 12:16] *HER*: I have made my mind [13/06 12:16] *HER*: U can go [13/06 12:16] *HER*: Iv repeated it like 1000x [13/06 12:16] *ME*: No thatd just now [13/06 12:16] *ME*: We said something before n its wrong to do things in anger [13/06 12:17] *HER*: I told in the strt so much to leave but u forced me to stay forced urself into my life [13/06 12:17] *ME*: If end of july u wsnt me 2 go I will [13/06 12:17] *HER*: No u dnt tell me wen u leaving or not [13/06 12:17] *HER*: I tell u [13/06 12:17] *ME*: Ok well wenever u were gna tell me [13/06 12:17] *HER*: This is my place ill give u back all ur money spent but leave [13/06 12:17] *HER*: Fynd ur pleace and leave u got 2 weeks [13/06 12:18] *ME*: No u think about it [13/06 12:18] *HER*: I have been [13/06 12:18] *HER*: Dnt tell me what to do [13/06 12:18] *HER*: I want u gone two weeks is enuf [13/06 12:18] *HER*: This was never gna work and i was gna sacrifice my happiness to stay with u [13/06 12:19] *ME*: Tell me something if I stayed with u n we worked out would u carry on lieing? [13/06 12:19] *HER*: Lool crazy [13/06 12:19] *ME*: No u wernt gna [13/06 12:19] *HER*: Mayb [13/06 12:19] *ME*: U were gna go [13/06 12:19] *ME*: How was u gna stay [13/06 12:19] *HER*: So y are ustill under my roof??? [13/06 12:19] *HER*: U fink ur smart acting like im gna stay and wot not [13/06 12:19] *ME*: Huh [13/06 12:19] *ME*: U wernt gna [13/06 12:20] *HER*: Just leavee the [censored] alone [13/06 12:20] *HER*: [censored] u and this bullshyt iv had enuf just fynd a place and goooooooooo [13/06 12:20] *HER*: I wernt gna stay ok fine ur won [13/06 12:20] *ME*: So why did u say just now that u were gna stay n sacrifice ur happiness [13/06 12:20] *HER*: No that was what u wanted me to do [13/06 12:20] *HER*: U wanted that of me [13/06 12:21] *HER*: Y are are wel still havin this convo [13/06 12:21] *HER*: Do u not get ot!!!!! [13/06 12:21] *HER*: Just go [13/06 12:21] *HER*: Its over ! [13/06 12:21] *HER*: Thankyou! [13/06 12:27] *ME*: But was u gna do that [13/06 12:27] *ME*: I dont want a divorce [13/06 12:27] *ME*: Not now even [13/06 12:28] *ME*: But I dnt think it wilk work unless u tell me the truth [13/06 12:28] *HER*: I do iv has enuf [13/06 12:28] *ME*: I dnt wna b in the same relationship [13/06 12:28] *HER*: Just go start ur life fresh with sumone else [13/06 12:28] *ME*: I want it with you [13/06 12:28] *ME*: But without lies [13/06 12:29] *HER*: This relationship will always be like this as i being forced to stay [13/06 12:29] *HER*: It just wont eva b the same ok [13/06 12:29] *ME*: Because u wont let it [13/06 12:29] *ME*: I dont want u 2 go [13/06 12:30] *HER*: U need to understadn that i aint that 16yr old gyal nemorw huz gna sacrifice everythin to be with u [13/06 12:30] *ME*: I know that [13/06 12:30] *HER*: Iv dne that enuf and got hardly nuffink then ur famo put me thru shyt [13/06 12:30] *ME*: And im sure you knowing that must feel terrible [13/06 12:30] *HER*: Im done [13/06 12:30] *HER*: Im washing my hands of this [13/06 12:30] *ME*: Thats them [13/06 12:30] *HER*: Just leave me [13/06 12:30] *ME*: You can leave me [13/06 12:30] *ME*: I wont stop you I told you [13/06 12:30] *HER*: They will always be a part u coz ther ur family and i fuckin hate them to bits and u just remynd me of them [13/06 12:31] *ME*: But I wont go without u kicking me out [13/06 12:31] *ME*: They dont have 2 b part of us [13/06 12:31] *HER*: Y are u duin this what good is gna cum out of it??? [13/06 12:31] *HER*: I dont feel anythin anymore [13/06 12:31] *HER*: Just fynd ur place and go [13/06 12:31] *HER*: Otherwose i will have no choice to but to take money out and give u the divorce [13/06 12:31] *HER*: Ryt now im just askin u to leave [13/06 12:32] *HER*: So just fuckin go *ME* [13/06 12:32] *HER*: Dnt make me hate u evevn more [13/06 12:32] *ME*: cant we make it work [13/06 12:32] *ME*: Hate me for whay [13/06 12:32] *HER*: Nope 100% nope [13/06 12:32] *ME*: U said u forgave me [13/06 12:32] *ME*: Right now I was checking up because u lied [13/06 12:32] *ME*: U cant blame me [13/06 12:32] *HER*: No i cant eva do that n if sme part of me has i will never forget never [13/06 12:32] *HER*: Jus go!!!!! [13/06 12:36] *ME*: I dont want to go [13/06 12:36] *ME*: Look just think about it [13/06 12:36] *ME*: Ur 100% confused as u said [13/06 12:36] *HER*: Have been thinkin [13/06 12:36] *HER*: Not any more [13/06 12:36] *ME*: Coz of today [13/06 12:36] *HER*: N ur not being iven a choice hea [13/06 12:36] *ME*: Coz I asked u [13/06 12:37] *HER*: No coz of everythin [13/06 12:37] *HER*: Juat go!! [13/06 12:37] *ME*: Ok well u made ur mind then I guess [13/06 12:37] *ME*: Im sorry [13/06 12:37] *ME*: Ill go [13/06 12:37] *ME*: But we were still gna get a car togeva [13/06 12:37] *ME*: Wot was that about [13/06 12:38] *HER*: If i be honest that was probs gna last 3 months thats y i sed i will pay for insurance coz the. It my my money that i loose and not irs [13/06 12:38] *HER*: But thats not happening anymore [13/06 12:38] *HER*: So dnt worry [13/06 12:38] *HER*: Keep ur car [13/06 12:38] *HER*: Have fun init with sumone else [13/06 12:39] *ME*: Wot do u mean last 3 months [13/06 12:44] *HER*: Nufink [13/06 12:44] *HER*: Stop cllin me! [13/06 12:44] *ME*: Y [13/06 12:44] *ME*: I dnt wna do this over phone [13/06 12:44] *HER*: I dnt wana talk to u [13/06 12:45] *ME*: Whenever I clock u y do u keep saying divorce [13/06 12:45] *HER*: Its for the best [13/06 12:45] *HER*: I aint gt all day to sit hea n answer ur questions [13/06 12:45] *HER*: We are over [13/06 12:46] *ME*: Just think about it [13/06 12:46] *ME*: If u still want it wen by end of july [13/06 12:47] *ME*: We will do it [13/06 12:51] *ME*: Stay with me [13/06 12:54] *HER*: No [13/06 12:56] *HER*: Its not wen u want it [13/06 12:57] *HER*: U sed u if i wana walk u will let me walk so whats this abt clearly ur words wer a lie [13/06 12:58] *ME*: No I said start of august [13/06 12:58] *HER*: No [13/06 12:58] *ME*: Yh I did [13/06 12:58] *HER*: Ur leavin [13/06 12:58] *HER*: Thats it [13/06 12:58] *ME*: Look just think about it bbe [13/06 12:58] *HER*: I sed no!!!!!!!!! [13/06 12:58] *ME*: This may be a mistake we r making [13/06 12:59] *ME*: So what happens if after I go n then u realise u wanted me all along [13/06 12:59] *HER*: I wontp [13/06 12:59] *ME*: But then u were confused anywyas [13/06 12:59] *HER*: If i do i will live wiv my decision but i dount dat would b the case [13/06 13:00] *HER*: Just please i am beggin u hea stop duin this ur duin wot u did in d start allll over again [13/06 13:00] *ME*: We cld essily make this work [13/06 13:00] *HER*: Just leave its wot i want [13/06 13:00] *ME*: No u can go [13/06 13:00] *ME*: I dnt mind [13/06 13:00] *ME*: Its not the same [13/06 13:00] *HER*: Then shutup [13/06 13:00] *ME*: Look its over I get it [13/06 13:00] *ME*: I dont mind [13/06 13:00] *HER*: Fynd ur place go [13/06 13:00] *ME*: I will [13/06 13:01] *HER*: K end of convo then!! [13/06 13:01] *ME*: But end of the day jus think about it [13/06 13:01] *ME*: Ok [13/06 13:01] *ME*: Until I go [13/06 13:01] *ME*: Alright [13/06 13:16] *ME*: Will u please think about it [13/06 13:16] *ME*: !!! [13/06 13:25] *ME*: *HER* [13/06 13:52] *ME*: Look lets just do what we were gna do [13/06 13:52] *ME*: No point making decisions over this [13/06 13:52] *ME*: Lets just not talk about it anymore [13/06 13:52] *ME*: Forget this convo [13/06 14:00] *ME*: Look forget what happened 2day [13/06 14:00] *ME*: Pls [13/06 14:00] *ME*: Lets jus leave it [13/06 14:00] *ME*: We were both angry [13/06 14:00] *ME*: End of [13/06 14:00] *ME*: I wont talk about it wen I get home [13/06 14:00] *ME*: Im sorry [13/06 14:04] *ME*: Thanks [13/06 15:23] *HER*: U cnt force me into stayin [13/06 15:24] *HER*: Unless u fink thts fair [13/06 15:24] *ME*: Nope [13/06 15:24] *ME*: Up 2 u [13/06 15:24] *ME*: But u think about it hun [13/06 15:24] *HER*: Then u have to let me go [13/06 15:24] *ME*: Yh I will [13/06 15:24] *HER*: Ur crazy [13/06 15:24] *ME*: But just think bwt it [13/06 15:24] *ME*: Well sorry for being crazy about my wife [13/06 15:24] *HER*: Ur duin sum next shyts to keep tabs on me [13/06 15:25] *HER*: I spoke to maz [13/06 15:25] *ME*: Ok.. [13/06 15:25] *ME*: And [13/06 15:25] *HER*: I kno [13/06 15:25] *ME*: Mahedi dont know [13/06 15:25] *ME*: He seriously dont [13/06 15:25] *ME*: swear to god [13/06 15:25] *HER*: He does kno [13/06 15:25] *ME*: Nope [13/06 15:25] *ME*: What did he say [13/06 15:26] *HER*: Abt wot? [13/06 15:26] *ME*: About how im keeping tabs [13/06 15:26] *ME*: The only person mahedi would think is telling me is farhas.. but I would never tell farhas our personal issue [13/06 15:27] *ME*: N top of that farhas works for phones 4 u not ee [13/06 15:27] *HER*: So hu isit then [13/06 15:27] *HER*: In ee [13/06 15:28] *HER*: Dnt use maz like u did before and get him to talk me into this or brainwash me into stayin coz im not listening to neone this is my life [13/06 15:29] *ME*: Yh im not [13/06 15:30] *ME*: Its up 2 u [13/06 15:30] *ME*: I told u [13/06 15:30] *HER*: U sure [13/06 15:30] *ME*: Door fully open [13/06 15:30] *ME*: Yeh bbe [13/06 15:30] *HER*: Coz ur sort of two faced [13/06 15:30] *ME*: if u choose 2 stay then good if not then no [13/06 15:30] *HER*: One min i can go next i cant [13/06 15:30] *HER*: I cant be with u ur crazy [13/06 15:30] *ME*: If I knew I had a chance kewping u by forcing u I still wldnt do it [13/06 15:31] *ME*: N tbh if I say u cant ur still gna go [13/06 15:31] *HER*: Look at how uv been bhavin abt abt this b situation [13/06 15:31] *ME*: I know I caused u pain [13/06 15:31] *ME*: Bbe u cant blame me [13/06 15:31] *HER*: Y dnt u just go stick ur head up his ass [13/06 15:31] *ME*: Honestly put urself in my shoes [13/06 15:31] *HER*: Ur obsessed [13/06 15:31] *HER*: Oh please *ME*! [13/06 15:31] *ME*: End of the day bbe I would love it for u 2 stay [13/06 15:31] *ME*: But if ur not then thats fine [13/06 15:31] *HER*: What u do is fuckin absurd [13/06 15:32] *HER*: U need to leave me and others alone [13/06 15:32] *ME*: Ive left b alone [13/06 15:32] *HER*: U sed u spoke to maz abt me chatin to aliyah hu he then went and spoke to her abt [13/06 15:32] *ME*: I dont talk 2 him [13/06 15:32] *ME*: Huh [13/06 15:32] *HER*: Ur fuckin up my friendship [13/06 15:32] *HER*: Ur such a hater of sum sort [13/06 15:32] *ME*: I didnt say nuffin bwt dat [13/06 15:32] *ME*: Wot u on about [13/06 15:32] *HER*: Fuckin crazy [13/06 15:32] *ME*: Wait wait wot [13/06 15:33] *HER*: I cant beloeve u [13/06 15:33] *ME*: I told mahedi u speak 2 b and u lied about how mucb u spoke 2 him [13/06 15:33] *ME*: N that was b4 we moved into our place [13/06 15:33] *HER*: U fink i dnt no o knew all along [13/06 15:34] *ME*: I said maybe he told aaliya that and maybe aaliya didnt wna jam wiv u coz ur married n u did dat so she dnt get influence [13/06 15:34] *ME*: I dont no if that happened [13/06 15:34] *HER*: I dunno of u talk to be or not but i am pretty sure u do as ur able to keep tabs on me hennie b [13/06 15:34] *HER*: What u gna do next? [13/06 15:34] *HER*: Go kill him? [13/06 15:34] *ME*: Bbe I jus no ppl in so many diff places [13/06 15:34] *ME*: N u no this [13/06 15:34] *HER*: Go kill hennie? [13/06 15:35] *ME*: Nothing goes past me [13/06 15:35] *HER*: I dnt care abt ur fuckin connections good fpr u [13/06 15:35] *ME*: I wldnt kill hennie [13/06 15:35] *HER*: B? [13/06 15:35] *ME*: most probably [13/06 15:35] *HER*: See [13/06 15:35] *ME*: But im not am I [13/06 15:35] *HER*: U dnt have any evidence that i see him or talk to him but u wnt leave him alone [13/06 15:36] *HER*: If ur planin on killin him im sure u speak to him [13/06 15:36] *HER*: Knowin u [13/06 15:36] *ME*: Did I say I plan on killing him [13/06 15:36] *ME*: I didnt say that [13/06 15:36] *HER*: U sed u wer gna [censored] him up [13/06 15:36] *ME*: Yh but I said it 2 u coz I was angry [13/06 15:36] *ME*: I aint angry anymore [13/06 15:36] *HER*: He was a good frend of myn and u [censored] him up i will [censored] u up [13/06 15:36] *ME*: Im sorry [13/06 15:37] *ME*: U met him in goldsmith pls [13/06 15:37] *HER*: His not eva sed a single bad thing abt pr against u [13/06 15:37] *ME*: Ur going on like as if im gna bang him up [13/06 15:37] *ME*: Im not [13/06 15:37] *HER*: Well ur crazy u ses before u will [13/06 15:37] *ME*: I dont care bwt him [13/06 15:37] *HER*: I think u do [13/06 15:37] *ME*: More u talk about it more I wna do it [13/06 15:37] *ME*: So leavr it [13/06 15:38] *HER*: Lol [13/06 15:38] *HER*: Fuckin crazy [13/06 15:38] *HER*: Blackmail [13/06 15:38] *ME*: N he wernt even b u met him in goldsmith [13/06 15:38] *HER*: Brainwash [13/06 15:38] *HER*: What else u gna do [13/06 15:39] *HER*: Myt aswel chain me tp the bed [13/06 15:39] *HER*: Gpt me as a prisoner newaya [13/06 15:39] *HER*: Sure ur famo wpuld be proud [13/06 15:39] *ME*: Look u decide what u wna do [13/06 15:39] *HER*: Seeing ther kid tp what they did [13/06 15:39] *ME*: If u go then thats fine [13/06 15:39] *ME*: Of u dont then we make it work [13/06 15:39] *ME*: Up 2 u [13/06 15:41] *HER*: Wotever [13/06 15:41] *HER*: If i stay ur gna make me a prisoner [13/06 15:41] *ME*: Just think bwt it hun [13/06 15:41] *ME*: I wont bbe [13/06 15:41] *HER*: I dnt want b ur bitch [13/06 15:41] *HER*: Iv had enuf [13/06 15:41] *ME*: U wony [13/06 15:41] *ME*: Its up 2 u [13/06 15:41] *HER*: Gna keep tabs pn me all the tym [13/06 15:41] *ME*: Im tellin u I wont [13/06 15:41] *HER*: Get people to follow me [13/06 15:42] *HER*: Brainwash me [13/06 15:42] *ME*: No if u stay with me then theres no way u would do anythjng behind my bacm [13/06 15:42] *ME*: Coz u would b making a commitment [13/06 15:42] *ME*: I wont brainwash u [13/06 15:42] *ME*: How can o [13/06 15:42] *HER*: I hate commitments [13/06 15:42] *ME*: I no u do hun [13/06 15:42] *ME*: I no [13/06 15:42] *HER*: U can get others to brainwash me [13/06 15:42] *ME*: So do I [13/06 15:42] *HER*: Maz [13/06 15:42] *HER*: Aliah [13/06 15:43] *HER*: Aliyah [13/06 15:43] *HER*: B [13/06 15:43] *ME*: No he wont contact u [13/06 15:43] *HER*: Jafour [13/06 15:43] *ME*: Do they even talk 2 u [13/06 15:43] *HER*: Ur crazyy [13/06 15:43] *ME*: Any of em [13/06 15:43] *ME*: Even aaliya really? [13/06 15:43] *HER*: Not the point [13/06 15:43] *ME*: Look up 2 u [13/06 15:43] *ME*: End of the day I just want honesty [13/06 15:43] *ME*: Dats all I ask [13/06 15:43] *HER*: Ud get maz to tell aliayah tp brainwash me [13/06 15:43] *ME*: N ill give u all of me [13/06 15:43] *ME*: Why would I do that [13/06 15:43] *HER*: I dnt want anythin from u [13/06 15:43] *ME*: Aaliya is ur friend not myn [13/06 15:43] *HER*: This has gne waaaay tp far [13/06 15:44] *HER*: Toop far [13/06 15:44] *HER*: To many lies [13/06 15:44] *ME*: I no hun [13/06 15:44] *HER*: To many broken promises [13/06 15:44] *HER*: To much bullshyt [13/06 15:44] *HER*: I quite [13/06 15:44] *HER*: Im dne [13/06 15:44] *ME*: Its up 2 u [13/06 15:44] *ME*: Like I said doors open [13/06 15:45] *ME*: Just think bwt it [13/06 15:49] *HER*: Good [13/06 15:49] *HER*: Coz im dne [13/06 15:49] *HER*: Its tym u move on fynd sumone hu can b honest [13/06 15:50] *HER*: N that tym wen u asked maz if i waa on the fne to aliyah or not he sed no [13/06 15:51] *HER*: But wen he asked her after she sed she was [13/06 15:51] *HER*: So dnt u be twisting shyt ip [13/06 15:51] *HER*: N im sure u kno b aint b [13/06 15:51] *HER*: His name is haroon [13/06 15:51] *HER*: The guy i met in goldsmiths ur ryt [13/06 15:52] *HER*: But nothin eva happened between me n him [13/06 15:52] *HER*: Coz after that tym i never spoke to him again until nov tym wen i bumped into him [13/06 15:52] *HER*: And yes i took his nymber [13/06 15:52] *HER*: Not with any bad intention [13/06 15:52] *HER*: And we strted talkin [13/06 15:53] *HER*: As friends [13/06 15:53] *HER*: He had got married [13/06 15:53] *HER*: So i saw it as a ok thing coz nothin could happn [13/06 15:53] *HER*: I told him abt u [13/06 15:53] *ME*: Where did u bump into him [13/06 15:53] *HER*: And ur weed [13/06 15:53] *HER*: And friend [13/06 15:53] *ME*: N y would did u take his numb [13/06 15:53] *HER*: And goin out all thw tym [13/06 15:53] *HER*: In starbucks [13/06 15:53] *ME*: What [13/06 15:53] *HER*: I was with hennie [13/06 15:53] *ME*: Where [13/06 15:53] *HER*: Kilburn [13/06 15:54] *ME*: N u said u went coffee shop last wednesday [13/06 15:54] *ME*: He works right next 2 u [13/06 15:54] *HER*: No [13/06 15:54] *ME*: How many times have 2 gone there [13/06 15:54] *HER*: He dnt work ther [13/06 15:54] *ME*: Recently [13/06 15:54] *HER*: He was passin by [13/06 15:54] *ME*: Ok [13/06 15:54] *HER*: Anyway [13/06 15:54] *ME*: So why did u give ur numb [13/06 15:54] *ME*: I dont understand [13/06 15:54] *HER*: I took his [13/06 15:54] *ME*: U were married [13/06 15:55] *HER*: At that point i was neglected [13/06 15:55] *HER*: And abandomed [13/06 15:55] *ME*: N tbh why was u in kilburn [13/06 15:55] *ME*: Coz in nov u didnt work there [13/06 15:55] *HER*: Thats near to hennies uni [13/06 15:55] *HER*: She wanted me to come to her [13/06 15:55] *HER*: Then decyed kilbun [13/06 15:55] *ME*: At that point u didnt meet with hennoe [13/06 15:55] *ME*: It wss nov [13/06 15:56] *ME*: U didnt go out [13/06 15:56] *HER*: Yh i did [13/06 15:56] *ME*: I cnt believe u took his numb [13/06 15:56] *ME*: So why did u say it was b [13/06 15:56] *HER*: Ok cool [censored] this then [13/06 15:56] *ME*: Wen we no it was haroon [13/06 15:57] *HER*: Coz that oneday wen i got angry and sed iv been speakin to be people for advise u asked hu i sed b in anger not realising how far u wer gna go [13/06 15:57] *HER*: The asvise he was giing was making sense to for me to walk away but to cope and understand and get u to change
[13/06 15:57] *HER*: Byt it didnt work [13/06 15:58] *HER*: So i told him id do what i want [13/06 15:58] *ME*: What [13/06 15:58] *HER*: Which was to [censored] this shyt and start moving towards a new start [13/06 15:58] *ME*: I dont get that [13/06 15:58] *ME*: Coz end of the day it did get me 2 change [13/06 15:58] *HER*: That was later [13/06 15:58] *HER*: Wen i was sure i wanted a divorse [13/06 15:59] *HER*: Anyways we just spoke we sidnt link up or [censored] or anythig like that his married his wife knew abt me [13/06 15:59] *ME*: U wernt even sure if he has a wife [13/06 15:59] *ME*: N from what ive learnt he hasnt got a wife [13/06 15:59] *ME*: He has a sister [13/06 15:59] *ME*: Whos disabled [13/06 16:00] *HER*: He does have a wife [13/06 16:00] *ME*: But u cldnt have spokeb 2 him about us everyday [13/06 16:00] *ME*: U 2 txt everyday [13/06 16:00] *HER*: I did [13/06 16:00] *ME*: N u called him everyday [13/06 16:01] *HER*: I needed advise how to cope everyday u diont no what i was goin tru u wer never ther [13/06 16:01] *HER*: Mayb if u wer i would not have spokento him [13/06 16:01] *ME*: Fair enough it must have been terrible to go through that [13/06 16:01] *HER*: Anyways [13/06 16:01] *ME*: Why gave it in ur heart 2 take his numb? [13/06 16:01] *HER*: So after i sed i was talkin to b u then wanted to speak to him [13/06 16:02] *HER*: I saw him as a friend [13/06 16:02] *HER*: Nuffink more [13/06 16:02] *ME*: I had his number since feb [13/06 16:02] *ME*: I jus wanted 2 see how much u lie [13/06 16:02] *HER*: Cool [13/06 16:02] *ME*: I knew everything from the start [13/06 16:02] *HER*: Ok well then ill stop hea [13/06 16:02] *HER*: Now will u leave me alone? [13/06 16:02] *ME*: N u myt have saw him from da start [13/06 16:02] *HER*: No [13/06 16:03] *ME*: But why did u take his numb [13/06 16:03] *HER*: Coz i saw him as a frend [13/06 16:03] *ME*: What allowed u 2 [13/06 16:03] *HER*: Fucks sake [13/06 16:03] *ME*: After making marriage vows a month n a half b4 [13/06 16:03] *ME*: How could u have [13/06 16:03] *HER*: U allowed me ur neglection u think i cared what ud say or do at that point [13/06 16:03] *ME*: Whole tym we were going out u neva did any of that [13/06 16:03] *ME*: So u went n done that [13/06 16:04] *ME*: For real [13/06 16:04] *ME*: When u took his numb did he try moving 2 u [13/06 16:04] *ME*: Coz I no at first in goldsmith he did [13/06 16:04] *HER*: Coz i was stupid in love ur love was a lie which u showed wen we got married i never have ever imagined id go thru that a weeks after id get married after everythin i went against and sacrificed [13/06 16:04] *HER*: No he didnt try i told him i was ther to buy a watch for u [13/06 16:04] *ME*: Ok [13/06 16:05] *ME*: So where was u last wednesday [13/06 16:05] *ME*: And wot did u do [13/06 16:05] *HER*: I didnt do anythin [13/06 16:05] *HER*: Just went for a coffee alone! [13/06 16:05] *ME*: Ok [13/06 16:05] *HER*: But wait u just sed u kno everythin so y u askin me [13/06 16:06] *ME*: And why did u not tell me [13/06 16:06] *HER*: U kno i lied u kno im a lier so y u askin me more questoons not like its gna fix anything at all [13/06 16:06] *HER*: Coz u always stick ur nose into my life wen i say im goin out alon [13/06 16:06] *HER*: Ud never believe me if i sed im goin alone [13/06 16:06] *ME*: Ok [13/06 16:06] *HER*: Ud fink wtf [13/06 16:07] *ME*: Fair enough I guess I would have [13/06 16:07] *ME*: I can value that [13/06 16:07] *ME*: And this other number [13/06 16:07] *ME*: A guy picked up [13/06 16:07] *ME*: Ends in 614 [13/06 16:07] *HER*: A guy couldnt hav picked up [13/06 16:07] *ME*: 613 [13/06 16:07] *HER*: If a guy did i dnt kno then [13/06 16:07] *HER*: But its not him [13/06 16:07] *ME*: It was activated last wednesday [13/06 16:07] *HER*: U have all his details [13/06 16:08] *ME*: I know I do [13/06 16:08] *HER*: What am i suppose to do if it was activated last wed [13/06 16:08] *ME*: I know where b lives [13/06 16:08] *ME*: But I wont do anything [13/06 16:08] *HER*: Well like i sed u go and hurt him or his family i will [censored] u up [13/06 16:08] *ME*: I had it for awhile [13/06 16:08] *HER*: He did what he did coz i told him to [13/06 16:08] *HER*: His got a disabled sister so dnt u dar [13/06 16:08] *HER*: Dare [13/06 16:08] *ME*: If I do anything to him it would be ur fault [13/06 16:09] *ME*: I know he does I told j this [13/06 16:09] *HER*: Thats fine and if i fck up u or ur family it will be ur ault [13/06 16:09] *ME*: He lives in ponders end [13/06 16:09] *HER*: Fault [13/06 16:09] *ME*: But I wouldnt do that [13/06 16:09] *HER*: Time will tell [13/06 16:09] *ME*: His 27 [13/06 16:09] *ME*: He has short hair [13/06 16:10] *HER*: What shall i do? [13/06 16:10] *HER*: But then again im sure u also kno if twice ur size [13/06 16:10] *ME*: That wont matter [13/06 16:10] *ME*: But I wont do anything 2 him [13/06 16:10] *HER*: Of course not ud have backup [13/06 16:11] *HER*: To help u do ur dirty shyt [13/06 16:11] *HER*: As for maz tell him not get involved [13/06 16:11] *HER*: Leave him alone now [13/06 16:11] *HER*: U gpt ur truth [13/06 16:11] *ME*: I dont [13/06 16:12] *ME*: Well I honestly appreciate what you said [13/06 16:12] *ME*: I really do [13/06 16:12] *ME*: And also if me and u end up divorcing you looking to remain friends with him? [13/06 16:13] *HER*: I dont kno [13/06 16:13] *HER*: Propbs not [13/06 16:13] *HER*: What use is he then? [13/06 16:13] *ME*: And what did his wife say about it [13/06 16:13] *ME*: Why would he have given u his numb if he had a wife [13/06 16:13] *ME*: Wot kind of husband is that [13/06 16:13] *HER*: Coz his wife ait paro like u she trusts him he told her abt me even more trust etwren them [13/06 16:14] *HER*: Not everyones like u thankgod! [13/06 16:14] *ME*: But why would he give u his numb without ocnsulting his wife [13/06 16:14] *HER*: Coz she trusts him [13/06 16:14] *ME*: Does his wife live with him [13/06 16:14] *HER*: Wen he gave it wasnt to do with sex or anythin [13/06 16:15] *HER*: Well if shes married to him ovi [13/06 16:15] *ME*: N hennie was kl wiv u givin ur numn [13/06 16:15] *HER*: She knoes im not givin it for the rng reasons [13/06 16:15] *HER*: Seriously wtf is ul with u [13/06 16:16] *ME*: And if u needed a guys opinion why did u not speak to mumin or his brothers? [13/06 16:16] *ME*: Why a guy that once tried moving to u [13/06 16:16] *HER*: He didt try moving to me [13/06 16:16] *HER*: Mumin is a kid [13/06 16:16] *ME*: Ok [13/06 16:16] *HER*: I dnt talk to his brothers meva have [13/06 16:16] *ME*: Ok [13/06 16:16] *HER*: He didnt try ot on me [13/06 16:16] *HER*: Fuckin hell [13/06 16:16] *HER*: Im dne now [13/06 16:16] *ME*: Ok [13/06 16:16] *HER*: Find ur place and leave [13/06 16:17] *HER*: Asap [13/06 16:17] *ME*: Well thank u 4 being honest abouy it finally [13/06 16:17] *ME*: He lied 2 me though [13/06 16:17] *ME*: And he lied hard [13/06 16:17] *HER*: Woteva he sed was to back me [13/06 16:17] *ME*: But he should no not 2 lie 2 a womans husband wen u r the opposite sex [13/06 16:18] *ME*: N who is this 613 numb? [13/06 16:18] *HER*: Sum gyal i kno [13/06 16:18] *ME*: Do u mind me knowing the name? [13/06 16:18] *HER*: Why dnt u start keepin tabs on her now [13/06 16:18] *ME*: And also have u n b spoke since? [13/06 16:18] *HER*: Nope but i will call him [13/06 16:18] *ME*: Why is that [13/06 16:19] *HER*: To tell him, get him out of this and of u eva call him again he should tell me he has his own to deal with [13/06 16:19] *HER*: But i told u ima call him so now u know [13/06 16:20] *HER*: Ill call him now if we are dne hea and seems like we are as ur offline [13/06 16:22] *ME*: Y r u gna call him [13/06 16:22] *ME*: For wot [13/06 16:22] *HER*: I told u t [13/06 16:22] *HER*: Y [13/06 16:27] *HER*: You leav him alone now [13/06 16:27] *HER*: N me [13/06 16:28] *HER*: Dnt get maz or neone to call him [13/06 16:28] *ME*: Im not gna do anything to him [13/06 16:28] *HER*: Told him no one will contact him again not evn me [13/06 16:28] *HER*: Esp not u [13/06 16:28] *ME*: U spoke to him then [13/06 16:28] *ME*: Dnt b giving my address or naything [13/06 16:28] *HER*: So next tym u hav a suspicion dnt b callin his number 100000x [13/06 16:29] *HER*: Lol k [13/06 16:30] *HER*: Im sure his seen u around mayb ur b8est person in north [13/06 16:30] *ME*: Like I said just think about us [13/06 16:30] *HER*: Nope ther is no us [13/06 16:31] *HER*: Never will b [13/06 16:31] *HER*: Im dne [13/06 16:35] *ME*: Just think bwt it [13/06 16:35] *HER*: I have [13/06 17:09] *ME*: U say ur not gna chat 2 him but then u switch ur last seen wth [13/06 17:09] *ME*: ? [13/06 17:19] *HER*: How has that got anythin todo with him u see what i mean straight away u jump to him [13/06 17:20] *HER*: As far as i now not like urs is showing neways [13/06 17:20] *HER*: My life [13/06 17:22] *ME*: Yh so [13/06 17:23] *HER*: Xactly [13/06 17:23] *HER*: So
Dude how old are you, like 17? Seriously. Grow the hell up.
I'm thinking the same thing, Starsky.
1wish, I hope it works out for you, but I can't read any more of this. You don't listen, and you won't get a hold of yourself at all. Fortunately for you, there are others on here far more patient than me to help. I'm bailing out!
I threatened him that if me and her divorce I will get him and everyone in his house.. his willing to help because he still thinks im a good guy apparantly.. but she defo wants a divorce after todays convo she defo wants me out in 2 weeks.. yesterday it was a case where shes still deciding but now shes made her mind up.. I have no choice.. I guess I have 2 get onto the LRT now?
First, why are you threatening this guy? It is not going to get you anyway, except maybe a restraining order. It seems like you think that you can just bully your W into staying with you. Not going to happen.
Second, your texting session is absolutely ridiculous. What you are doing is clearly not working. Yet, you keep doing it over and over again.
You have some amazing vets posting on your thread giving you excellent advice and you are not following any of it.
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