Reading through your post I suggest you start by speaking to a Divorce Busting Coach as soon as possible. You can read through the books again [sorry, not offered in electonic version- publisher's decision, not ours]. You can also continue to get advice from on line community. But, at this point, you really need the professional help of a coach. Please call me to discuss our coaching program and get you started on the way to clarity and if nothing else, healing. Consider this just for YOU. Call me at: 303-444-7004
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Do you have the patience to go through with this? Get the books asap.
I believe I do have the patience for this. Why do you ask?
In reading my posts, why would one think I didn't have the books? I have the following hardcopies; DB, TDR, TSSM. I wanted them in electronic version to be able to read inconspicuously, instead of sitting there in my living room in front of my Dh and my out of town company holding a DB book?
I came here for help because I'm angry, sad, and mentally exhausted. I came here feeling hopeless and not sure what to do, thus asking for help. Maybe someone could see something for afar that I can't see close up? Maybe I didn't understand some of the instructions correctly? It would be great if there was a magic bullet, but there really isn't. I was hoping that someone could lead me in the right direction of the first step .I'm going to make a phone call to the nice coach during my lunchtime today.
I'm still here. I can't afford moneywise to call DB coaching yet....trying to sell somethings. We've been really busy with company here....going through life motions to ensure things get done. I'm reading DB in little bits, as much as possible when he's not around, like during lunchtime at work. I've been reading through some of the posts and replies.
I'm trying to figure out if since neither one if us has actually left, what step is next.