Help! PA confirmed after 6 months

[Bunches]

Help me, please! I don't know that I can deal with this. I know this far along I shouldn't have been snooping but today I logged into W email to see if she sent back D paperwork yet and found an email she forgot to delete to OM. It gives enough detail to let me know she cheated on me around the time she left and has been with this man since. I know I should not confront her with this but I can't sort out how I feel or what I should do. I've told 1 friend who doesn't know anyone else I know or have any form of contact with W. But I don't think I should tell anyone else. How do I survive this? Its 6 months after BD and this news still makes me want to curl up and die.

[Cadet]

I know I should not confront her with this but I can't sort out how I feel or what I should do.

Why dont you use this thread to try to sort out your feelings and what you should do.

I agree that you don't need to confront your wife about it.

You survive this by starting with a beginners mind (DB101)

Understanding infidelity might help.

You feel betrayed and that is understandable, how you move forward is up to YOU.

Knowledge is Power