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Since we are today finding "tools" for recovery, one of the ones that its universal and helps me a lot: music!!! I start with this song wink

Jimi Jamison --- Not Tonight. (Amazing lyrics for LBS)


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
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An iphone app that gives me motivotional quotes (gogofo suggestion!!)

Its called PRACTICE


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
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Great thread. It took me awhile to start listening to music again and I agree its a great recovery tool. While I still like a lot of my old favorites, Im finding some new flavors of music which seem to have so much meaning to me.

True to myself - Ziggy Marley (this is my DB theme song, lol)

Hazel - Phillip Phillips (I like all his music)

Float On - Modest Mouse (I think about all of you with this one, It just feels good)


Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14
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7:36am in the train on my way to work and listening to Jimi Jamison:

(Baywatch song theme)

some people stand in the darkness
afraid to step into the light
some people need to help somebody
when the edge of surrender's in sight
don't you worry
it's gonna be alright
cause i'm always ready
i won't let you out of my sight

i'll be ready
i'll be ready
never you fear
no don't you fear
i'll be ready
forever and always
i'm always here

in us we all have the power
but sometimes it's so hard to see
when instinct is stronger than reason
it's just human nature to me
don't you worry
it's gonna be alright
cause i'm always ready
i won't let you out of my sight

i'll be ready
i'll be ready
never you fear
no don't you fear
i'll be ready
forever and always
i'm always here

cause i'm always ready
i won't let you out of my sight
oooh
i'll be ready
i'll be ready
never you fear
no don't you fear
i'll be ready
forever and always
i'm always here
forever and always
i'm always here


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
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Books by Leo Tolstoy
Books by Wayne Dier specially all the ones after he experienced "the shift"
A book called " dying to be me" by Anita Moorjani


When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
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Music heals the soul. It really does. I play Pandora on the 90's channel and let it rip. It helps when I start to "think."

Thinking isn't a bad thing in itself, but thinking....thinking....and thinking about what you just thought, and how it applies to what I said, she said, and what I think is a dangerous cycle.

Music breaks that up.


Me: 33
W: 27
S: 5
D: 2
Bomb: 1/2/14
First Separation: 1/25/14
MC: 2/7/14 (one time only)
Moved Back in: 3/31/14
W says she wants a divorce and moves out: 7/26/14
Appt to sign dissolution: 12/30/14

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