Not so much crazy as inconsiderate but the consistent use of the word "my/mine" when referring to our things.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
WAS D15 at home with me. Difficulty with D15, teacher called caught cheating in class. During our talk together with D15, wife tells D15 you don't love me, D15 says that's right. Wife walks out calls me later, I having a really hard time right now. I can't deal with D15, you're on your own?!!
Oh I forgot to post this one. One night shortly after BD, h looked at me and said " I just don't understand how you can function being so rational and logical."
Right....
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
Not so much a "says" but "does"... WAS screening my call and calling back after I text her that I need a key to get inside the house.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
Oh I have another good one. At BD, h looked at me sobbing and said his entire life changed when our oldest s10 was born. I said," you don't think my life changed after having s". H said, "well no."
Then he went on and on about how he never got over the fact that I didn't take s10 immediately when I got home after being in the car for an hour because I had to use the restroom. I thought , " he's still holding into that ? (He had the MLC googly eyes). However, a week later h told me it was time for me to get over my father's death which death which was 6 months earlier. Okay ...
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
I got home tonight to a note on an empty 2L ice cream container that said "gone in three days AND I (wife) didn't get any". I emptied the last one so I'd arranged for a new one to be bought and told my wife it was in the freezer. She already knew it was there.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
He doesn't do anything around the house. All he does is: - vacuum the house - load/unload the dishwasher - make the beds - and he does his own laundry - and he cooks on weekends
but he doesn't clean the counter tops or do any dusting.
I could only imagine the face of the person on the other end of the phone.
My H wrote on his sworn financial statement that he spends $500 a month on clothes for the kids, when he has bought exactly one outfit for each kid since they were born.
The other day he asked me to send more clothes over with the kids bc he toed g have any at his apartment.
It was all I could do not to ask where the $2500 of clothes he has bought since he moved out have gone. Instead I asked that he give me a list of what he needs and I will pack them up.
He gave me the list, and then said, "let me know if you don't have any of these things; though I would be surprised since you spend $XXX a month on kids' clothes.
Huh?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
