Physically, im doing everything I can do at this time to GAL. Inside im hurting bad. w and I are being everything a married couple should be EXCEPT there is no touching, no ML and im still sleeping on the couch. I still support her hand and foot and she bought a new car. I wonder if she's getting comfortable in this role. Will she ever make a final move? Will she hold this D over me forever without doing anything? Revaluation time is soon!
Me 43 W 43 S 10 (Special Needs) M: 14 yrs T: 18 yrs Bomb: 09/16/12 Filed for D: WHO KNOWS???
I am getting very confused here. w is talking on the phone to an old friend and she describes me as her husband in good terms. How I support her, am good to my son, and how I have a good job. I thought that was encouraging. Then my mother gave me a set of real nice shower curtains. W saw them and was real excited about them and the prospect of having nice shower curtains finally and then tells me about her ideas to redesign the bathroom
Whuh?!?!?!
She then postscripts what she said by saying that I will have them when im by myself finally.
I dont even feel like putting up no damn curtains now!
Do you want to go OR stay and redecorate??? Please make up your mind!
Me 43 W 43 S 10 (Special Needs) M: 14 yrs T: 18 yrs Bomb: 09/16/12 Filed for D: WHO KNOWS???
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[quote=25yearsmlc I can be very sarcastic when I do stand up comedy. [/quote] LMAO I just pictured you doing stand up and we are your material!!!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
After another sleepless night, literally. W wakes up in the morning and asks me if I can choose, what type of woman would I prefer. Thinking what brings this up at 8am I just say "I like a mix of Puerto Rican, Irish/German" (which she is). She doesnt think its funny and asks the question again. She then says she likes hispanics and african-americans and that she knows I like Asians. The question is becoming uncomfortably weird. I then say ok I do like asians. what the whole thing was about? I dont know. ?
Me 43 W 43 S 10 (Special Needs) M: 14 yrs T: 18 yrs Bomb: 09/16/12 Filed for D: WHO KNOWS???
After another sleepless night, literally. W wakes up in the morning and asks me if I can choose, what type of woman would I prefer. Thinking what brings this up at 8am I just say "I like a mix of Puerto Rican, Irish/German" (which she is). She doesnt think its funny and asks the question again. She then says she likes hispanics and african-americans and that she knows I like Asians. The question is becoming uncomfortably weird. I then say ok I do like asians. what the whole thing was about? I dont know. ?
Weird.
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
