Hi I am new to this site. I hope I copied my thread to this forum correctly from the newbie page. Looking for some advice. What should have felt like a step forward for some reason is making me feel really bad today. My wife yesterday had a long phone conversation with OM where he back offed and told her he needs to be out of the picture so she could make up her mind, because she still has feelings for me. Sounds great right? In my mind he now looks like a hero because he is able to give her more space while she still tries to make up her mind. My boom came 11-13-14. I guess I am confused because when she called and asked me to come home for coffee it was going to be to tell me that she had made up her mind and that it was over with OM. Still in limbo and now more confused. Trying 180's. If someone could let me know if my original thread ( I feel like I am in limbo ) did not connect that would be helpful.
