I've been married for 11 years, this is my 1st marriage the 2nd for my wife. As of November 1 we have separated and I have moved out. There is 3 kids involved my daughter and 2 step sons. During our marriage there has been some rocky times which have been my fault, I know it takes 2 to tango but I have been the blame for most of the issues at hand. Since I have moved out I have been coming to grips with why our marriage has been falling apart. I have also been focusing on being a better person (husband and dad). It took me moving out to understand what I needed to do. I guess living under the same roof I took everybody for granted and didn't have my priorities straight.
The problem lays with my wife, she has only mentioned divorce once since I moved out; that was during the first week (I know she was mad and still is). She has also noticed the changes that I have been making, but here is the kicker, she is seeing someone else. That someone else is her ex high school boyfriend. They haven't seen each other in 25 years but kept in contact via Facebook when times got tough for them, he has been married 3 times and has 5 kids. He also lives 3 1/2 hours away. My wife knew he would drop everything and come pick up the pieces, which is what he did he has given her money, fixed things around the house plus installed things that we never had.
My problem is that she has introduced the kids to him and his kids and is focusing all of her time and attention to her new found 'boyfriend'. But she has also mentioned things that make me feel that I might still have a chance of working things out.
I need some advice on what to do next or if I should just pack it in and except the fact that my marriage is over.
