I've been a lurker on the site since Sept 2012. I was blindsided back then by my wife who told me that she no longer loved me and she wanted out. I was crushed, but luckily found Michele's book and this wonderful forum. I have embraced DB'ng and have managing to keep things together. We are still living together, sleeping in the same bad and get along really well. I've made great strides in correcting some of my major issues (which I will get into in a separate post).
I think my wife generally cares for me and I feel we've become better parents and friends during this time. My question though is how do I help reintroduce affection/kissing/etc back into the relationship? One of my faults was not showing enough affection to her and I'd love to work on that. However, I don't want to come off as pursuing. Is this just a case of "wait and see"? Would love some advice....
Me: 42 W: 39 M: 14 years T: 16 years D12 D11 D9 ILYBINILWY 09/14/12 Living Together In Limbo
Congratulations on putting the DB techniques to work. You should also read Sex Starved Marriage on how to reignite the passion in your relationship. There are also SSM coaches available to talk to. Take good care and take the next step.
Karen, Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004 karen@divorcebusting.com
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