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#2414439 12/14/13 12:45 AM
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Hi there. Of all the forums, this is the one that feels most like home for me now, so I'm moving in.

I came from Newcomers, So Long and Thanks for All the Fish.

Some of you I've known since I joined the forums a couple of years ago. I'm glad there's traffic here, because I still rely on the DB community a fair amount to keep me processing my grief and recovery from this big life change.

I'm only getting started in the divorce process, but I think it will be a project of 2014.

So, hi, thanks for being here.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.
adinva #2414445 12/14/13 01:00 AM
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Oh yeah, and it was kind of a cr@p day. I've managed one client for 15 years, and today they let me know they're not renewing my contract. So I'm also going through the world's slowest firing as well. I'm under contract until June.

I felt surprised, hurt, angry, unappreciated, and sad. I will feel more of that, and it's normal. But I also know what's on the other side of those feelings, now that I've been through them before. I'll process my feelings and move forward and be ok. Something better lies ahead. But today I feel a little bad.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.
adinva #2414463 12/14/13 02:24 AM
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Oh Ad, I can't imagine what a shock that must be.

But you have the skills.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
labug #2414464 12/14/13 02:27 AM
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I think you could also look at it as you have have up to 6 months to wow them and win them back! If you want them back that is.

kat


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S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
#2414482 12/14/13 04:41 AM
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Ad,

I hope you've read the fine print in the 'Big D' about Wii's procilvities--especially his froggy buddy. Just considered yourself warned, m'dear. wink

Welcome!

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Welcome AD you are in good hands here. Things will get better if not awesome. Be patient and have faith.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden





Rick1963 #2414512 12/14/13 01:59 PM
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Thanks rick!


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.
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Thanks wonka! I will consider myself warned!


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.
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I may make the move over here with you within the next month or so. And we can even have a friendly competition on the "slowest divorce ever".... We just need agree on a start point. If its BD, then I've got the edge. If it actual paperwork, then you're up on me!

(((Ad))))


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms
ces67 #2414640 12/15/13 02:31 AM
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Oh no, I will gladly turn over the tinfoil crown to you for having an earlier bomb date.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.
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