My fudge came out really good. I can't wait to try other flavors. If I don't get back on here again may all my DB friends have a safe and wonderful Christmas
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
It's really good that you've still got this special friendship with your in laws Glad the fudge turned out ok and enjoy your soup I love homemade soup, it's the best Hope you have a safe and wonderful Christmas as well K (((hugs)))
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Had a fun weekend with SIL now heading into a 9 1/2 hour shift on a Sunday; not looking forward to this but its OK cause I don't go back in to Friday morning.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
Glad you had a fun weekend with your SIL Hope your shift goes ok and look forward to the update about your weekend
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
180-My shift did go by fast we had a small carry in for lunch and everyone liked my homemade fudge they want me to make more. We (boys and I) went out to a pizza place for dinner last night with my SIL from ky; MIL and my other BIL and his family it was really nice that they still except me into the family I hope that they will allow me to still be part of the family for awhile. They all don't know that I'm planning to return home after my boys are of age which is in 9 years. I figure I have some time to let them know what my plan is after my boys are all grown up. And I hope that I have the money to move back home for good too. Well have a good day and I'll be back later
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
You definitely don't want anyone knowing about your plans to return to your home state until much, much closer to the actual move, especially in-laws. You've got loads of time to save up and who knows, things may have changed completely in 9 years time and you may have other plans.
Glad your shift went fast. It's not good when a work day drags out because you're not busy.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I agree with NQ You don't want to let anyone know that you're planning to move. However, saying that it depends how badly your H wants to see his sons. When H left me the first time, I was already for upping sticks and moving house. H said afterwards he's glad I didn't as he would have missed his son. Glad work went ok Enjoy the holidays
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
NQ and 180 I won't tell anyone yet I still have 9 yrs to go. By then my boys will be old enough to decide where they want to live at. My oldest had said he wanted to attend college in my home town so that is good and my youngest wants to go there for The beaches. And when we do move back to my home town The boys will keep in touch with their dad I'll make sure of that. But If they change their minds and want to stay with their dad then that will be fine with me they will be old enough to make their own decisions on what they want to do. I just want them to be happy. Well I shall close for now I have to go back to baking and cleaning the house I'll talk to you again tomorrow
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
Glad the fudge turned out ok and enjoy your soup