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From Thread - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2401971&page=12
I do wish someone would warn me before they close my thread!
repost from last thread - MLC twins strike again smile H has got some mail today, it doesn't look good either. three white envelopes with private and confidential on them. I've told him they're here, hope they're nothing serious or it'll be me getting it in the neck!
H has been round today to collect his post whilst I've been at college. He's put the toy that the cat plays with on my PC monitor again! What is that all about? MLCers are weird! Don't even try to figure this one out, lol.


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I was going to reply to that last post but it was already locked when I got to it.

At least he picked up the mail quickly. Maybe the toy is his way of making sure you know that he's been there. Is his mail anywhere near the PC? Does he really have any reason to be anywhere near the PC? I hope you've got it password protected.


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That is strange but NQ is probably right. He may be showing you he was there. Even so the mail is gone so maybe in his mind he is thinking something else. Ha, just too weird...lol


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Yes my pc is now password protected and has been for a while now smile I know he's been here as the mail has gone, lol. The mail is on top of the bookcase in the hallway, so you can't miss it really, lol.


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Well, we never know how these MLCer minds work. It must have some significance to him, but what possibly only he knows smile.


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lol I know smile
I had an eventful day today. We had just started our reflexology class and we were told to evacuate the building as there was a potential gas leak in the building next door to us. We were told to come back in an hour, so we went for a coffee and a mid morning snack - a bacon roll/bap/bun whatever you want to call it smile
After college I had a counselling session which wasn't as good as last weeks. She was going over old ground - why do I want to get back with H, how has he changed, did I always have this relationship with my mum, etc. I think I need to remind her that I want CBT. I didn't think it was helpful at all, in fact it made me feel worse!


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Once you hit 100 post, it is time to start a new thread smile


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I know JP, but I didn't realise I had because I forgot to check smile


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Originally Posted By: TryingToDo180
I had an eventful day today. We had just started our reflexology class and we were told to evacuate the building as there was a potential gas leak in the building next door to us. We were told to come back in an hour, so we went for a coffee and a mid morning snack - a bacon roll/bap/bun whatever you want to call it smile

Keeps things from getting boring at college I guess. When I was at university, we had a fire alarm at the same time on the same day every week for about a month or so – we were thinking someone didn’t want to go to that lecture LOL laugh.

As my son would say, mmmmm bacon smile.

Originally Posted By: TryingToDo180
lol I know :)After college I had a counselling session which wasn't as good as last weeks. She was going over old ground - why do I want to get back with H, how has he changed, did I always have this relationship with my mum, etc. I think I need to remind her that I want CBT. I didn't think it was helpful at all, in fact it made me feel worse!

Sorry your counseling session wasn’t good. I would definitely remind her what you want. You're going to these sessions to get help, not to end up feeling worse.

Sounds like you need to open a bottle of fun and have some LOL wink.


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lol I will do in a few mins NQ smile nearly time for wine o'clock smile


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3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
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