Hey Dig! I can't wait to hear more about your experience; glad you are back safely!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
Just sent a text to W Wishing her a Merry Xmas hoping that she is enjoying her presents.
Not too sure whether this is dB or not but I do know that Xmas is her favorite festival of the year.
What's more strange was that after sending it. I felt that my stomach was turned inside out. Not sure why this is happening. I do know she is not going to reply. But that feeling of upset stomach feels so weird.
Gifts are all right but must be given without any expectations.
As for those feelings, well, I can only say from experience that those feelings slowly fades. I guess it has a lot to do with 'acceptance' of my own situation. With that comes detachment. Slowly but surely.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
