"Sexual frequency is not so much of an issue now. There is one simple reason. Willingness. That's it. Rotten days, flu, oral surgery (insert how your day goes bad here) all tend to dampen spirits on occasion, but if your spouse loves you, and is willing, then the formerly sex starved partner can say 'that's alright, we can wait until tomorrow', and mean it."
Nopkins, my boy, you have struck gold with those words. I wouldn't need sex everyday if I knew that I could get it if I wanted. Now that I'm not getting more than once a month I need it at least every day. Folks, that is the key to your starving spouse's need. Now, how do we get all those low-libbers out there to realize this?
Just to avoid any confusion, I told my W how she would know if I wanted to have sex.
"If the sun sets in the West, then you will know that I want to have sex with you. And, if the sun should fail to set in the West for some reason, then you will know I want sex if the sun rises in the East".
The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.