My married sister is has been in affair with a married man for 6 months now. I have already tried everything to talk sense into her but no luck. She refuses to end it. Her husband suspects but does not know for sure.
She has told me that her married man will not have sex "until after they are married". Although this guy is somewhat into the church I don't understand the thinking behind this unless the relationship is one sided and she thinks they are more than friends and he does not.
Does anyone have any ideas? I'm no expert but this seems kinda out there. Maybe he's gay? She did tell me that he has had testicular cancer and is sterile. Maybe all his gear does not work now?
I would appreciate any comments. Especially something that might snap her our of this whole thing.