I understand the bad days. Maybe you should try and get out more with people your own age? Meet some new people, try some activities out of your comfort zone. I went on a solo vacation, it scared the crap out of me but I proved to myself that I could be alone. For me just being alone is the hardest part (being with the kids doesn't count)
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction
Yes, being alone is the hardest. I do need to expand my comfort zone.
Got a letter from atty yesterday...divorce is just about settled. It was a punch to the gut I didn't need, but knew was coming. Agreements will be drawn up, signed, and filed in the next couple weeks.
Starsky, Train, Wonka, Twin, and Bond...I'm at a loss right now. I have the utmost respect for all of you. So be honest with me, is there really any hope left? Or is this truly it?
Starsky...I know you said in another post that 20-25% get remarried...did you mean to their same partner? How does that happen if W wants nothing to do with me?
