BTW, she didn't move on. She went through the same thing I went through when I was WW. She could have moved on back in June, told me it was over and I would have respected her for it. Recognized I lost her and painfully moved on. Our R after June went into overdrive. More family time, more communication etc. All like smoke and mirrors as she kept telling me how she was trying, that this OM didn't exist any more. That she just needed time to heal from my infidelities. All lies. She was seeing this OM while trying to decide who to choose. If I had left her alone, I know she would have chosen me, but only after having her ow revenge A. She was already showing signs of coming around when I caught the guy going over to her house at 11pm.
She knows and knows this guy is not an option for a long term R, but now is stuck with him and is trying it out. Unfortunately for her I'm the one that is over all of this at this point.
I lover her, but what I cannot forget is how she had no regard for the implications of her actions. The whole restraining order and stalking charge for the text messages etc. That was low!
till she never talked about D. I thought I filed stop being the doormat. I need her to make a decision. Still nothing on her part not even filling her portion of the docs. She will be served next week.
One thing I failed to add is that I suspect my W might have had at least one PA when I still lived with her and was talking to a second man as well. I found 3 greeting cards from this OM I am suspicious of and the second guy I think they were only texting each other but I caught it before anything rally happened.
I bring this up, because Ive been doing a lot of thinking this weekend here in my apt alone. I don't have my DD this weekend.
