Today I started in my new Dept at work and so far I really like it. And by The way H did come this morning to help me with my youngest getting him on the school bus. And if by a chance H doesn't show up to help me I have a neighbor that will check to make sure my front door is closed. So I'm starting to be in a good place and I'm still taking it day by day. I hope that tomorrow will be a good day too.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
Congrats on your new job, I hope this is just one of many positives headed your way!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
I just took a really huge step back last night after dropping my boys off with their father. I'm so tired of this emotional game H is playing. I'm so done with it. I just need to move on already. Yes I know that is what everyone keeps telling me to do. I just need to just let go already and start finding happiness again.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
You'll have up and down days. Sit on your thoughts for a while and don't make rash decisions. You have all the time in the world to make the right decision FOR YOU
M32 H37 DD1 6 DD2 5 M6 T10 EA 31.08.13 Separated and H moved out 19.09.13 ILYBINILWY 23.09.13 OW 11.13
I'm doing it again taking more steps back. This time my boys got their school pictures today and H had asked for couple of wallet size pictures if my boys and I told him I didn't order any wallet size cause I didn't have enough money I just ordered enough for The grandparents and one for me and one for him. Now he wants to order wallet size pictures and I asked him why and who else is he fwttimg the wallets for he told me that he us ordering it for him and he wants to give OW a wallet size of the boys. I asked him why does she needs to have pictures of the boys for? Then I called my MIL up and told her about it cause I didnt think that the OW has the right to have copies of their picture in her wallet. MIL told me that as long as he paid for the extra pictures that I should just let him do it. Because as of right now he is with OW and as long as he is paying for it then its his choice to give pictures to who he wants to give it too. So I texted him back and don't him never mind I'll give him the order form and that I was sorry for being ruid and I have to remember that he is now with her and no longer with me. Which I'm pretty sure I should not said that either. I just don't know how to just don't let these things bother me when ever he mentions anything about OW.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
