She is serious. I know there is another man. She wants to be with him. Thats the big rush. I tried to touch her hand yesterday but she got pissed. The OM was inside the house. She has moved on.
She claimed the last 2 years of our relationship was hell. I was'nt emotionally there. I wasn't proactive with our marriage. Despite that, she went through IVF. Her mind is made up. Last week, I asked her if she had feelings for me. First she said yes, then not really. She seemed confused. This last email was very business like. Sunday, I told her I wished I'd been there for her emotionally. My shrink said all along there's another guy. Guess she was right. If you guys have any suggestions, please share.
She claimed the last 2 years of our relationship was hell. I was'nt emotionally there. I wasn't proactive with our marriage. Despite that, she went through IVF. Her mind is made up. Last week, I asked her if she had feelings for me. First she said yes, then not really. She seemed confused. This last email was very business like. Sunday, I told her I wished I'd been there for her emotionally. My shrink said all along there's another guy. Guess she was right. If you guys have any suggestions, please share.
Sure it is. Right -now-. She once made up her mind to marry you too. So clearly, she has the capacity to change her mind. She CAN change it back again. It happens all the time.
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Last week, I asked her if she had feelings for me.
Don't ask such questions. Are you familiar with Sandi2's 37 Rules? Read them daily and live them.
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First she said yes, then not really. She seemed confused.
That's because she IS confused. Most WAS's are.
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My shrink said all along there's another guy.
Marriages do survive infidelity. There's hope as long as you care to hold it in your heart. She's done for now, so work on you and back off of her and give her time and space. You never know what the future holds.
