Don't you hate the edit button being disabled?? Ok, as I was saying, it is apparent that your kids love you and that it must be painful for them. Their mother is doing them no favors for sure. Keep calling and texting and fighting for them.
Are you in touch with your lawyer? What has he/she advised you to do? I think this is equal to kidnapping as she is willfully keeping you from your kids and hiding them.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Got the cops called on me last night. Yay me.. Went to my buddies house and went for a walk with him, his son and his dog. My kids were at the park by his house playing! They both ran up and gave me hugs. Then Ex came out of the house across the street. Started yelling at me that I cant be there and that I need to leave. What am I doing there and on an on. I told her calmly that I wasnt leaving, that I was going to play with my kids. So she stormed off and called the cops. Cops came and wanted to talk to me. Tried to tell me to leave. Told them I wasnt. I was breaking no laws and if she had a problem then she could leave. Cop called another cop who I am involved with weekly for other reasons and he said I had every right to be there. Ex got really pissed when she was told that they could not make me leave. Took her about 20 minutes of wandering around to figure out what she was doing. Meanwhile, i got to laugh and play with my kids It was so nice being able to hug them and tell them I love them. I dont understand her anger, I never will. Oh well. She can be consumed by it. Because she is really going to hate me when I take her to court...I finally found a lawyer interested in talking with me.
Got the cops called on me last night. Yay me.. Went to my buddies house and went for a walk with him, his son and his dog. My kids were at the park by his house playing! They both ran up and gave me hugs. Then Ex came out of the house across the street. Started yelling at me that I cant be there and that I need to leave. What am I doing there and on an on. I told her calmly that I wasnt leaving, that I was going to play with my kids. So she stormed off and called the cops. Cops came and wanted to talk to me. Tried to tell me to leave. Told them I wasnt. I was breaking no laws and if she had a problem then she could leave. Cop called another cop who I am involved with weekly for other reasons and he said I had every right to be there. Ex got really pissed when she was told that they could not make me leave. Took her about 20 minutes of wandering around to figure out what she was doing. Meanwhile, i got to laugh and play with my kids It was so nice being able to hug them and tell them I love them. I dont understand her anger, I never will. Oh well. She can be consumed by it. Because she is really going to hate me when I take her to court...I finally found a lawyer interested in talking with me.
Clay
Good.
Loving kindness coming your way! You can be a great dad even when seeing them so rarely.
Are you keeping some record of her actions?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
She is living in a f-ckin hotel here in town.. lying the whole time and keeping the kids for some sick reason of her own.. and yes, I do think she is using. The house she was at my buddy knows the people. They are meth heads. She thinks she is so slick. She forgets how involved I am here from law enforcement to treatment centers to meetings to high schools even. People know me here and are telling me stuff all the time. She also forgets that I know how she acts when she is high...I remember it well.
Bug-
Yes. I am writing everything down in a notebook. Keeping all phone records. My therapist is helping me and is going to be there in court with me.. It will probably be about 6 months away though. She is doing this to herself and the kids to hurt me for some unknown reason. I was not a perfect husband but I genuinely loved her and my kids.
