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#2378808 08/23/13 02:10 AM
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My wife just filed divorce. Refuses to talk, says she's "done", says she's "moving on".

I'm more or less posting on here as an outlet as I'm familiar with most of the concepts from a previous divorce.

Apparently I have a knack for attracting women with severe emotional damage, and I'm paying the price.

JayMan #2378811 08/23/13 02:16 AM
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I don't get it. When you were posting in '09 were you posting about your first M or this second M?


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER
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First. smile

JayMan #2378830 08/23/13 05:36 AM
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My wife has been having what I call an "emotional affair" with an old friend from high school. She has been calling and texting off and on for at least a couple of months.

I confronted her with the evidence, and she said it is a friend and nothing more. She said she met him alone one time for coffee, and that's the only time they've been alone together. I know she has been meeting up with people from her high school, both men and women, so I think that's legitimate.



However, I'm hard-pressed to think you can have calls at least every other day and many many texts without there being "something" there, especially since she refuses any counsel with very dear close friends. To the point of literally ignoring our one friend who just had a baby.

I dunno - trying to believe her word, believe in the morals I know she holds, while reconciling something like this in my head.

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Jon,

This forum is for WASs to post. Try Newcomers or Separated...


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oldtimer #2378939 08/23/13 04:06 PM
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OK, can I move this or delete it?

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After reading your first entries from '09 it seemed like you just gave up. I'm not sure if you actually learned anything from DB during your first time around.


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2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER

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