Sorry about the awkward situation on your date... how did your date handle this? Will you go out with her again?
Thinking about you and our parallel situations... although mine has suddenly shifted..come see me and give me your input, please!
Well, my date handled it really well. I tried to make light of the situation and not pay it much attention....BUT, I have not heard from her since. What is a guy to do?....I am just going to laugh and enjoy WHATEVER happens. I am realizing life is too short to sweat things as much as I have in the past.
Thinking about you tonight and wondering why you are cautioning me so much about cute D'ed guy when you are dating yourself???
Don't get me wrong, GTO. I am cautioning you, and I am cautioning myself as well. We BOTH need to be careful!...... The one difference that makes me a little more nervous for you is, I have no interest in building a R with my "date". I don't wish to cuddle, and I don't wish to exchange late night texts. She is simply a friend of the opposite sex, and even that makes me very cautious because I know all too well what that can lead to. Rest assured, I am following the same advice I have given you. Mine is just internal dialogue ;-)
Originally Posted By: littleGTO
I'm not saying I shouldn't be cautioned, b/c I do think I could easily get in over my head in a short time. So, thanks!
So.....somebody please help explain this insanity!
Wife sends me a text saying, "Hey I just wanted to give you a heads up. Me and some of the team (wife participates with OM's motorcycle racing team for kids) will be out at the property (our business). They have stayed out there every Labor day for years. They have invited OM and I out for a BBQ, so OM may be out there visiting".
Is she out of her mind? Does she actually think this would be okay to "inform" me of? What would possibly be going through her head to think that she is going to bring OM onto my property, in front of my friends and family and enjoy of a fun friendly weekend right under my nose?.....this is going to get very ugly. Wife, knowing me, must realize that she is literally going to put this man in danger! I replied to her that it was unacceptable and the answer was NO. He will not step foot on this property, ever! What is wrong with these WASs? I mean honestly, what goes through their heads?...No tact, no class and no common sense. I was so angry when I got this text, I was vibrating.
I hope your wife honors your request, but if she does not, continue showing her strength and maturity in spite of her behavior!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
Thanks, I was hoping it wasn't me that was crazy. Why she thinks that would be acceptable, just blows me away.
As far as how I am doing, I am a little upset. I am not angry about it at the moment, but I am sure I will be furious if this saga continues. I thought about writing him a message, telling him that I wasn't going to cause conflict about him dating my wife, or spending time with my daughter, but I was drawing the line on having him on my property. I wasn't sure how appropriate that was.
