H went away for a week said he was going to sales etc,was very vague and seemed upset. Funny thing,I never saw suspected ow around that week either,but the night he got back i saw her drive by my house,coincidence?When he showed up the next morning for breakfast it was all I could do not to say something or ask if he and ow had a nice holiday. He was vague about where he went and what he did. Do I do the eyes open mouth shut scenario?
It if you sit quietly and patiently, the answers will be revealed to you. The best thing that I can suggest is keep your eyes and ears open and your mouth silent. He's bound to tell on himself eventually, i.e., they all do. LOL!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.