Me!

[Jeack]

What does it mean, when your first priority is to make yourself happy with who you are rather than saving your M?

It's scary Because my STBXW has made a few text msgs to me which i've ignored solely because i'm started to become ok with finding myself and being happy alone.

I'm scared to get wrapped back up in her trap especially since she's with OM. So I've just continued to ignore her msgs, even though I want to talk to her.

I feel like like she always has a motive, financially for being nice.

[Thumpered]

so your "going dark"?

I think if its working for you, then that's fine. Each sitch is different. Your right, its all about finding YOUR happiness, you deserve that for yourself.

Is her age right? 26 with a 13 and 11 year olds? If so, the writing was on the wall, she never lived in the first place. She must have gotten pregnant at 12 years old???

[Thumpered]

or the kids yours from previous, duh, its late lol.

[Jeack]

Lol. Yeah kids from my first marriage. But you gave me a good laugh.

[Jeack]

It works some days going dark. some days not! Just try not to let her know it

[Jeack]

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