2. I would like H to work on and get help for his problems, and I would like for us to work on ours together.
3. I want to have a loving R w/ my H again, where we can call each other and talk for no reason, and spend time together in each other's company and enjoying being together and talking having an intimate R.
4. I would like to be able to believe one word that comes from his mouth is true.
Long-term; H to come back home and we both work on making this a better marriage.
1)better communication-learning to work through our problems and try to find out what each of our love languages are and fulfilling each others needs. 2) Love and try to trust each other again- I think we both lost the trust. 3) quality time- no matter if it is work or fun. 4) learning to not let others bad influence overcome what we have together. I know this is more than a few!
1. WAW will return Home A. Short term goal: She will begin entertaining the idea of returning home and re-building a loving relationship. 2. We will prioritize our relationship above all else. and save time and money first and fomost to do things that build he foundation of our relationship. 3. We develope at least one common family goal that we both enjoy working together on, a hobby, a business etc. [/list]
Quote: I also see that I never replied to #5 in this thread. I'll be back in a day or two to complete my answers.
Hmmmm....14 months and I still haven't answered that one for you JJ. Looks like my procrastination needs a little fine tuning.
Please look into my eyes JJ and hear my words...I promise I will take care of that answer on Saturday 08/13/05.
This is actually what I now say to my W when I need help with my procrastinating (or as I like to call it "my short term memory loss" ). I've got her full attention and have looked her square in the eyes and made a heartfelt promise to her. Trust me, you won't catch me breaking any of those promises to my W.
Everyone else if welcome to join in on this thread as well. I'd like to see if any of you get the same inspiration here from JJ that I did 2 years ago.
- Mark
What goes around, comes around.
My sitch: "Third time's a charm?"
). I've got her full attention and have looked her square in the eyes and made a heartfelt promise to her. Trust me, you won't catch me breaking any of those promises to my W. 
