I have been here before in the MLC section, got back together with ex- h only to have him run again. We have been together off and on for thirteen years. After his last run from our relationship, I moved back home ( the town we are both from) to be near family. It has been two years of being apart and at so many times, I thought ex- h was making his way back to me! He sent messages saying how sorry he was, he loved me, I was the best love he ever had, he could never love a woman again like he loved me, he wanted to come home so bad, etc. Around Mothers Day, we had contact. This contact was made by him! When I responded, I responded with memories of our past Mothers Day together. He responded back that it hurt so much to hear from me and that he was in a new relationship and didn't know where it was going??? I wished him well and told him to have a good life. He said thats not what I meant, I thought we would always be friends. So now I am just left with pain and heartbreak. I know that as with all the other times, he would send messages just to keep me in the picture then go about and do whst he wanted. We have no children together or nothing to even keep us together. He knows that I love him and I am wondering do I just never make contact with him again?
As far as GAL, I had lost my Mother to cancer, he left snd I moved home. I have been unemployed since and in a deep depression about all that happened. I havent been the most uplifting person to him when we have had contact but neither was he.